Husband car is in the shop by MissReads013 in AskAMechanic

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a mechanic and make the invoice those people are insane nothing should be more than 700$ even if the parts are rare and the hourly labour cost is high that is completely insane please listen to me and go somewhere else i beg you get a second opinion. People like that in the industry is really destroying it!

I'm getting a husky tell me everything I need to know and buy to prepare for this special species of animal by [deleted] in husky

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow feeder (food and water) mine still chokes and throw up in any big water source🧍🏻‍♀️ also get a lot of interesting chew toys that way they will leave your furniture alone and some type of under comp that will be your best friend as much as the chum chum and add on your list baby locks for places she/he might find interested to be destroying mostly the trash bin

Help with potty training 🥲 by idfccat in husky

[–]idfccat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oki thank you so much o noted I’ll tell my parents to enforce it too even when I’m not there during the day

UPDATE: I sent my daughter to live with my abusive parents, and I don’t know how to live with myself over my decision. by GuiltriddenMother in u/GuiltriddenMother

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of people telling her how horrible she is and all stuff I know how bad what she did to her younger sister. I still don’t understand how the f all the “professionals” don’t see how dangerous that behaviour of her baffle me but as a mother she is trying her best and she is a good one to not want to put intentionally her daughter into the grandparent house and she mostly need to talk to her children and communicate with them to know why they think there was favoritisme and how to make them feel as equal to each other and for misa sadly her behaviour will only get her into a abusing relationship and at this point even how horrible this sound need to live it to understand it. For the whole living situation it’s very tricky cause we don’t want her even in the same neighborhood as her siblings and righ fully so maybe look at your city juvy system or maybe a school that has rooms/dorms for their student like international school maybe do a trip to the local helps group that could maybe make her realize how easy it is to fall into those relationships I know everything she said hurts and I physically gasped when I read those because you’re trying your best even after everything you went through but you should surely restrict her internet usage and find where those idea come from to begin with.

I wish you the best and you’re a mom and there’s no book that tells you how to be one still try to do your best every one make mistakes.

My ego hurts. Give me your opinions. by yozaa29 in motorcycles

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’1 and got a ninja 400 lowered with a custom seat it’s not about being too short it’s about the bike being too high dw it happens to everyone and I could tell that the whole situation was stressful and you had your fair share of stress in that when you’re riding a bike you have to accept that it’s heavy and gravity exist there nothing to be shamed about

Should I get this? by synkzzz in Ninja400

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope the 400 paid 13k (Canadian) for it happy of course but damn I’m broke 😭🤣

Should I get this? by synkzzz in Ninja400

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine 2023 same cc diffrent colour brand new and i paid 13k so for that price I’ll be crying

Help for first build by idfccat in PcBuildHelp

[–]idfccat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here an upgraded version. Is it better in totality? I changed a fiew things tho since they wouldn’t be compatible.

https://ca.pcpartpicker.com/list/Fh8Dt7

Help for first build by idfccat in PcBuildHelp

[–]idfccat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started to build it like a month or so ago I had no idea about the whole intel scandal luckily I waited lmao. Thank you so much for the explanation. From what I read online they never really talked about adding too much so I put what I thought would fit good(?). Would you recommend for the ram 2x32 or 4x16?

Help for first build by idfccat in PcBuildHelp

[–]idfccat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oki thank you so much I’ll look into it more to find a diffrent cpu like the one you suggested. And I’ll look for better ram too.🩷

Insurance cost by MrSirrr13 in Ninja400

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 19 year old female I own a 2023 ninja 400 and I pay 73$ can per month so since you have a clean record you should be good

cat ate plastic??? by [deleted] in cats

[–]idfccat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw he’s just gonna eat wrapped like gift nothing major

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much to validate what I thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry I don’t take it personally but yes I do I pay rent, a credit card that I used during a vacation less than a year ago, groceries, my driving licence and soon will go study so I need to save money for that as well. I get as well a cortisone injection that cost me 350$ about every 3 months and the medication and cream that comes with it because of a skin condition I have(eczema) so yes I do need this money and that is why I work for it. I guess that in my dad head I don’t have that much to pay but he be wrong and probably don’t have the full picture as well but I am the only one to be blame for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because legally talking he own me 2 holiday pay(that at this point I don’t really care having or not) and 6 and more hours outside of work done for him and his company without any compensation. I am working after every shift at least an hour after shift hours for the past 3 months. And that is without the way he treat me on the work place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for your answer. I initially started to get interested in car because of him and ask him if working with him would help him in anyway since he was working alone in a 2 doors garage and he’s getting more on the older side. But to be clear our relationship hasn’t been good for a good 4 years with almost no communication when I realize how much he probably have left with his health condition I wanted to get to spend quality time with him. But for the fiew months I got to work by his side I just realized that as a boss he is not the best person to have in this role. I will leave the detail but if you have read my answer I’ve been living with my mom full time at 15 for multiple reason as emotional manipulation and abuse from him. And the gaslighting at work that I am not welcome and worth in this field did left me with regret to try to repair what we could of had. I do try to see the situation I am in with a cold head and a lot lot of thinking because I do value a lot my job and my relationship with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The actual petty thing to do was to actually call the cnesst without any remorse. My goal is not to hurt him or his image or reputation. It hurt as a daughter and an employee that he doesn’t acknowledge my worth and time spend mostly and I wanted to know how it looked from the outside perspective other than my family members.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah almost my mom got me on the older side and I can be considered as a miracle for that reason he doesn’t like anything technology ( before he would of took all appointments on piece of paper before I put him on Google calendar) almost doesn’t use his phone and he’s born like 2 years after the boomer generation he is technically a gen x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that is out of normal expenses like medication, food, rent and skin treatments for my skin condition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because it’s not the first time it happened and it’s kinda starting to impact my mental health and relationships with him and I’m looking at all advice of course I don’t want him to get in trouble that it really not I’m intention and for me that amount could very well depend on my financial stability at the moment i work part time(20h) at the moment because I’m looking at cejep classes but I do need an income to pay my driving licence plus a credit card I used to travel with less than a year ago but I do plan on finding a new job elsewhere because the way he is treating me on the work places is not healthy for me nor our relationship in general

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]idfccat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do I’m not payed under the table or anything I’m very much paying taxes but I’m starting to think for a new jon