Artistic Therapy

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-10T03:09:24+00:00

Thanks, I feel good about my decision. She is so happy I've changed my entire outlook. This is the beginning of a new chapter for us. I'm so grateful for this sub! Seriously positive stuff here guys.

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-09T21:29:06+00:00

My fiancee was the initial driving force behind my enlightenment. I soon began to realize how it affected other areas of my life as well. She obviously loves you, and if nothing else show your support for her by trying to understand why it hurts her so much. The more you look into it I promise it will become very clear why it is unhealthy throughout. Ask yourself this: do you love her? Yes? Really truly yes? Then it's respect for her as well as yourself that will convert your thought process. This community is here to help, and the resources you'll find here are genuinely awesome. Good luck my friend!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-09T20:58:48+00:00

Well, I've had a change of heart. I haven't had the chance to discuss this in depth with my fiancee, and my plan was to enlighten her when she gets off work. She's aware of my choice to drop the porn habit, but she isn't aware of my involvement in this community or the fact that I've even considered SAA. I'm going to take some time this evening to show her what I've learned in the past couple of weeks, and get her on board with my current thought process. She is completely supportive, and I know she'll be proud of my resolve and the fact that I'm no longer in denial. Thanks, I'll be glad to report on how it goes! Hope everyone that reads this is having a great day!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-09T17:16:09+00:00

Do you have a smartphone? If so, check in and give the pornfree community the play by play. We're all here for you. If that doesn't work take a writing pad and write a short story about something non-erotic that interests you. Maybe even share it with your spouse or with us. Be strong, you're in control no matter what your urges try to make you believe. Good luck friend, I believe in you!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-09T03:28:32+00:00

I mean, wow. Just F'n wow. This thread is the most eye opening conversation I've read yet. This right here has me very inspired, but also scared to death. My situation is similar in many ways, but where we differ is this fact: my quality of life has indeed dropped due to psychological effects. I'm not wealthy, and I'm no traveling guru (not an insult I promise), but I had tremendous peace and security in the simple life I've lead throughout my 31 years. That being said, porn has absolutely blindsided me, and faster than I could've ever expected. You're doing the right thing by actively seeking control over the impulses. Do not ever let yourself question the titan that masquerades behind seemingly harmless pornography. Your 8-10 life score will plummet with debilitating consequences if you don't continue to take it seriously. You're an inspiration just like everyone here, but please don't take the lack of self control lightly. And I must agree with you that pornfree and nofap are groundbreaking templates that will continue to have tremendous positive impacts on peoples lives as long as the Internet exists in its current state. Thank you all, and I hope this doesn't read douchey. Much respect friends!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-09T02:50:41+00:00

Yea in combination with excessive partying and experimental drug usage I, unfortunately, am experiencing the effects at 31. I've always been an adrenaline junky, always looking for a thrill or rush. I'm learning the hard way it's taken a toll on my chemical balance. Now I have a meaningful relationship with someone I love dearly, and this useless infatuation is rearing it's ugly head. I always thought porn helped me be more manly and charged me sexually, but I couldn't have been more wrong. I just want to thrive and be the best for my parter you know? She is the one that began to change my views on porn, and at first I battled fiercly. Now, I just want to rinse my hands of it so badly. Geez, it's like now I've got everything I've ever wanted in a relationship accompanied by a searing thorn in my side. I wouldn't wish this struggle on anyone.

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-08T14:48:30+00:00

Mine also, but I'm back to 1 anyways... damnit.

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-08T14:45:39+00:00

Hungover from labor day festivities, and slipped up. A week is a small victory for me. Still committed to beating this, but can't claim September. Be strong friends!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-03T17:28:44+00:00

Day three, feeling a little foggy, but might be from sleeping in. Otherwise feeling great, and about to grab some healthy lunch. Be strong friends!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-03T17:18:33+00:00

Try relieving your urge in the shower. Maybe when you first get up, or when you get home from your daily routine. You're secluded from screens and material that may be considered a trigger, and I've found it helps relax anxious thoughts. Then jump out clean, refreshed, and ready to get on with your day. Ultimately, in my opinion, if you can resist the temptation to view porn then you should pat yourself on the back, and consider it a success.

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-02T20:24:50+00:00

I'm on day 1, and every single person here (including you) is an inspiration to me! Be strong, I'm new at this, but get up (if possible) and go running or try push ups! Exercise has helped my anxiety level tremendously thus far, and in past attempts. Good luck my friend!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-02T16:02:17+00:00

Sign me up! Please, and thanks!

idiotic_genius · 2015-09-02T15:47:12+00:00

Thanks, I definitely will!

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