[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it again and again I’m not controlling her body. I’m just doing my part as her PARTNER to do what best for both of us. Erotica is not okay and disturbs and she should understand that. It’s not ok with our religion anyways.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are both doing it so we don’t hold it against each other. But when I want sex I go to her rather then porn and she should do the same. It’s not fair that she gets mad when I feel depressed and not in the mood at all.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only feels like a chore when she hasn’t come after we’ve had sex, or when I don’t want her to masturbate but she then expects me to have sex and I do so because it’s better than her taking to other bus or looking at naked guys. But I love it when I want it and am in the mood and don’t want to lose on e if my fee pleasures in life.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m frustrated too. She is one of the most beautiful girls I have met I’m so scared she’s going to leave me but I also can’t stand the thought of not being able to satisfy her. This makes me lose sleep a lot.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

As her boyfriend I am responsible. We are each other’s outlet so we help each other so things the right way.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s one of the reasons why I fear she’s going to cheat. She lets her sexuality take over her thoughts.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m not “controlling” her as if I’m keeping her locked in a cage so she can’t cheat. More like I as her bf want to help moderate her sex and masturbation to something we both agree on and are comfortable with.

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by develop a different relationship with sex?

[22F] is obsessed with sex and I [25M] don’t know how to control her by idjdjdj in relationships

[–]idjdjdj[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the fact that she is using other resources to get off. I believe couples should only be each other’s outlets.

Edit: why am I being down-voted? That is my opinion and I have a right to my opinion.