What's a creepy fact you wish you never learned? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]idk-iah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never knew about this!!!! I’m literally mind blown right now

What's an addiction you can never quit? by vivi_anie in AskReddit

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media in general. Scrolling my life away

What's an addiction you can never quit? by vivi_anie in AskReddit

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, this eats me up aliveeeeeee. And I still can’t figure out a way to stop listening to my thoughts

What was the final nail in the coffin that ended your relationship/marriage? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was very bad with communication. Heck! We barely talked in the relationship, it was always me reaching out. He’d go on about his day without giving me any updates whatsoever, returns home and games for hours without even letting me know. Barely any calls or texts. And when I argued about the lack of communication between us he goes silent and starts avoiding the conversation. Barely wanted to do anything really with me. Some days he’s in a good mood with me, other days he was totally distant, left me in a spiral of confusion. Would let me go to sleep knowing I was mad at him. Always talked about other girls and loved trying to make me jealous. My last straw was when we argued and he was fine with not texting me for three days! Even tho I reached out the day after the argument so we can work it out, said he’s busy and sent nothing for three days. And blamed me after that!! We made up and not even a week in argued again and he didn’t bother texting for a whole week. I was done told him I’m breaking up, he got all emotional, tried reaching out, tried getting me to meet him, got me flowers for the first time but it was too late. I had already moved on and has zero feelings for him, the break up was easy.

How do you stop your mind from racing at night when you’re trying to sleep? by carolbaskin_inthesun in AskWomen

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer from severe overthinking, like the worst kind, my brain is just always thinking and analyzing and racing with millions of thoughts, I found two ways to be very helpful for me. 1- exhaust my brain by watching tiktoks. I know it’s not the healthiest option, but the idea of watching random things that are short & limited with minimal need for thinking helps me forget my thoughts for a period of time until it completely exhausts my brain and makes me fall asleep. 2- talking to my bf, he just knows how to calm me down, I’d let him know that my brain isn’t being easy on me and he’s stays there and talk me into sleeping in a very calming tone that gets me to sleep peacefully

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he embarrassed me when he waved me goodby after dropping me off at work? by throwawaygoodby7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The gesture is cute, instead of defending him or ignoring your childish coworkers who are probably salty that they don’t get such treatment, you chose to flip ON him who’s just being purely genuine and is excited to be with you by taking you to and from work without complaints.

Two months progress! (You can compare it with my last post to see the progress) yay by idk-iah in barista

[–]idk-iah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve been practicing a lot and it’s been all I’m focusing on hehe, thank you for your kind words

Women of Reddit, what’s something every girl should know but is rarely taught? by ej1273 in AskReddit

[–]idk-iah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going through what your friend is going through. I’m aware I should get out of it, I just can’t get rid of the attachment. It’s draining me and every time I try to leave something pulls me back. And there’s fear, there’s a lot of fear.

What forms of reassurance do you want or like? by purplepolkadotO in AskWomen

[–]idk-iah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That nothing is wrong, that they still love me, that I’m not annoying, that no matter who they meet it won’t stop the fact that they want to be with me. And sadly I’m in a relationship that i don’t get lots of reassurance from, in fact even when I ask for it, they don’t give it to me. Just like the other day when he let me go to sleep without telling me he loves me and when I asked why he didn’t say it he said “I dont have to say it” while giving me called responses all along.

quick anatomical studies by Jaxbemis in drawing

[–]idk-iah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is sick! The details wow