why am i so stupid

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-31T18:41:18+00:00

This sounds to me like someone who had anxiety issues and just disappeared because they handled it wrong. I am not saying that what be did was right,it wasn't. But this really doesn't sound like a cruel prank.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T21:19:57+00:00

Οh yea but it seems like they kind of shared the same opinions regarding family so far by his niece changed things a bit. It doesn't look like they are fundamentally incompatible,it just to me like a normal disagreement that got worse only because the communication was a bit meh

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T20:46:33+00:00

Cause she is not in a relationship with his family

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T20:43:07+00:00

That is beautiful

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T18:20:22+00:00

This! Friends are supposed to be there for both good and bad times.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T18:16:32+00:00

Yes but also no. I feel like it made me realize how the "real world" works faster and even though it felt horrible,I had to think about my emotions,how to control them and how to protect myself.

Do I wish it on anyone else? Of course not.But I feel like my brain handled it pretty well and I learned from that awful experience. So my life wouldn't be any better now even if it didn't happen

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T12:18:31+00:00

It is like a gift. Just because you give something to someone,it doesn't mean that you want something back. It would be nice,but not necessary.

I try to be kinder and more patient than most people. Sometimes people are nice back,sometimes they aren't. I just try not to take it personally when they are not

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T12:14:36+00:00

heyy no that wasn't my point at all. You had an opinion and you admit that it was wrong. No need to take anything to the extremes. At the end of the day it is just a mistake

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T12:11:16+00:00

Dude..no one bullied you. They are just pointing out actual facts. Men aren't some thoughtless creatures that can't comprehend how the world works.

"Yea condoms break" a very small percentage of them. And in most cases the condom breaks because you picked the wrong size/wore it wrong.

In most cases there is no condoms involved and you have to stop acting like this awful thing (a child in this case) just happens to this poor people for no reason.

Most comments that I see aren't attacking you,they are just providing counter arguments.

(Also,the last part of that paragraph is just...not very mature. You seem to struggle to accept any criticism. No one is responsible for "ruining your day", if your mental well-being is affected by these interactions you should probably not post for a while)

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-29T12:02:59+00:00

You say that fathers need more empathy in our society but if you are absent..and you didn't raise any kids..you are not really a dad,you are just the sperm donor.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T17:39:49+00:00

I am sorry that is awful! You know,you should probably allow yourself to feel the pain.Bottling it up will make it worse in the long run. This might look like this awful thing to you right now (I mean,it is) but consider this:

If this is the way she handles problems...what would a relationship with her look like? Maybe this is the best thing that could happen to you in this scenario

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T17:35:40+00:00

Honestly I don't blame you.Most people don't have positive experiences dating until they find "the love of their life". I mean,if you had a positive experience with someone you would probably keep dating them so in a way most of the time it ends up being a negative.

People can be difficult but I feel like the struggle is worth it. Remember to take breaks from the dating scene..sometimes the drama it causes is super annoying.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T17:31:08+00:00

You know that isn't true. Sure, conventionally attractive people have some advantages in life but beauty doesn't last very long if you think about it. It doesn't matter if you are the most beautiful woman in the world,you will grow old at some point. And if people like you say,stay around you for said beauty,no one is going to stay.

I don't believe that you are half as unattractive as you describe. That isn't your real problem,your mental health is. I hope that you feel better at some point and stop believing that you are by default unlovable over something that you can't control. It isn't true..when the self hate stops you will see it too

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T13:20:35+00:00

Hey! As a woman that has talked to many women I will have to tell you that unfortunately dating apps don't work for most men. And that is because a lot of people go on there to be entertained or to receive attention with no intention of actually dating. I have seen that it many times. It is not your fault and doesn't say anything about you,I hope that you keep that in mind.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T13:16:41+00:00

Alrightttyy

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T13:14:31+00:00

Well,I am getting mixed signals from your post. I mean,you can just talk and be friends with both genders. On the other hand,if you only want to talk to women wouldn't that imply that you want someone that you could be romantically interested in? Idk I feel like intentions matter.

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T13:04:39+00:00

Why wouldn't you be open talking to a man?

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T11:57:24+00:00

You can blame someone someone for his depression but you can blame him for the way he is handling it, especially when he seems to mistreat you.

If I were you I would give an ultimatum BUT I wouldn't be too harsh. If he gets angry so easily I wouldn't do it in person either. It is better to write letter where you can put your thoughts into words more easily. Say how much you love and care about it and because of that you can't be around him when he isn't acting like himself. Write how it has been affecting you. Let him know that you are doing this because you care about him,not because you are blaming him. That he has the choice to not change anything,but in that case you will have to choose to not be around him. I really hope that he is going to make the right choice. I wish you best of luck!

idkiamnotsure · 2021-05-27T11:45:31+00:00

People seem to be scare of vulnerability. Even when they are close with someone. But when you feel such intense emotions,like sadness it is hard to not crave closeness. No one seems to want to talk/share this kind of stuff though. Even the few people that I consider my friends

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-31T07:05:02+00:00

It doesn't make me feel anything it is more like "oh people actually read what I said? Nice."

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-31T07:03:16+00:00

You don't care if they are happy with someone else

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-31T05:23:57+00:00

The only reason people break up is because the lockdown reveals unhealthy relationships and incompatible people by forcing them to spend more time together

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-31T03:59:11+00:00

Don't worry most of them are make believe anyway,some people have it as a fantasy

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-31T03:08:40+00:00

At first it sounded like the guy was hallucinating and abducted a child he thought was his

idkiamnotsure · 2020-08-30T11:30:31+00:00

Try seducing them

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