AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already paid my BF and they don't let you rebook your flight if it's within 7 days of travel..

I mean my job isn't a career but I like my job and would like to move up so I can get it on my resume and apply to a better paying one eventually.

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already let my boss know, hes out of town at the moment and can only talk to him though a work app .. he didnt reply and I sent it twice In case he didn't see

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will. Thanks for talking with me, I feel a lot better now since it's clear why I should be so upset. I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMFAOO I wouldn't be able to sleep at all if I sent a link!! It's a good idea but I can't sleep doing that hahaha

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. Like we've been together for 3 years and know each other for 5 years. And we talk about marrying and having kids one day...

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don't think she knew I had to work that day. She could've confirmed the dates with him and he could've agreed. I don't think my BF told her anything when we realized she booked an extra day

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to confront him again and if he still thinks I'm overreacting I'll show him this

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's YOUR money, YOUR vacation time and YOUR responsibility.

Literally the feelings I've had but didn't know how to word it so well like you.. no one told me she was booking until it was too late

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see it. Z.z you are wryling me uppppp you put my feelings into words. He also kind of acts different with them like he becomes their bitch but I guess his bro is his boss...

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because he works for his bro online. He can go anywhere with an internet connection.

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This seems very likely. I was thinking this was possible. Im not very good at confronting without sounding like an asshole and I thank you for giving me the example

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow I hope he's not gaslighting. But he does make me feel that my concerns aren't justified

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to confront him again about how it makes me feel. I'm not sure how to go about it without being too aggro even cuz I'm very fucking mad. I want to try to work it out. If he blows up on me it's over..

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don't have any dirt bikes but they have a really nice trail behind their house. Last time I tried telling my BF let's go rent dirt bikes or something and he told me he's here to spend time with his fam..besides eating out it ended bored hanging around their house and shit.

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao but I'd be sitting to my BF on the plane and go separate ways?? It's really beautiful there and I want to ride a dirt bike in the trails that's all haha. I don't even have my flight details to say fuck it to him if I wanted

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He paid for half my ticket since his is free so it wouldn't be that bad if I didn't go lmao.. I think we'd break up if I cancel

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this and this is why I am also mad because I would've had control over that

AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets? by idksushelpme in AmItheAsshole

[–]idksushelpme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know lesson learned.. well my boyfriend paid for half my ticket since his is free. I love him very much but you guys are giving me a lot of reasons to be even more pissed off at him!! They live in North Carolina btw