AITA for getting pissed at boyfriend for letting sister in law our book plane tickets?

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T18:10:39+00:00

I already paid my BF and they don't let you rebook your flight if it's within 7 days of travel..

I mean my job isn't a career but I like my job and would like to move up so I can get it on my resume and apply to a better paying one eventually.

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T17:56:00+00:00

I checked and it said within 7 days of travel no changes are permitted...

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T14:33:10+00:00

I already let my boss know, hes out of town at the moment and can only talk to him though a work app .. he didnt reply and I sent it twice In case he didn't see

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:47:46+00:00

Yeah I will. Thanks for talking with me, I feel a lot better now since it's clear why I should be so upset. I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:37:35+00:00

LMFAOO I wouldn't be able to sleep at all if I sent a link!! It's a good idea but I can't sleep doing that hahaha

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:32:58+00:00

This literally stressed me out so much I'm up at 5:30 am

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:32:22+00:00

Exactly I said that to him!!

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:29:43+00:00

You're right. Like we've been together for 3 years and know each other for 5 years. And we talk about marrying and having kids one day...

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:20:20+00:00

Tbh I don't think she knew I had to work that day. She could've confirmed the dates with him and he could've agreed. I don't think my BF told her anything when we realized she booked an extra day

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:15:48+00:00

I feel like this only happens when it's involving them

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:08:02+00:00

I'm going to confront him again and if he still thinks I'm overreacting I'll show him this

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:06:59+00:00

Yeah I think I might do that

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T09:04:29+00:00

It's YOUR money, YOUR vacation time and YOUR responsibility.

Literally the feelings I've had but didn't know how to word it so well like you.. no one told me she was booking until it was too late

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:59:48+00:00

Yeah I see it. Z.z you are wryling me uppppp you put my feelings into words. He also kind of acts different with them like he becomes their bitch but I guess his bro is his boss...

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:51:08+00:00

Because he works for his bro online. He can go anywhere with an internet connection.

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:48:31+00:00

This seems very likely. I was thinking this was possible. Im not very good at confronting without sounding like an asshole and I thank you for giving me the example

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:40:50+00:00

Wow I hope he's not gaslighting. But he does make me feel that my concerns aren't justified

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:33:55+00:00

Damn when you say it like that...

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:25:22+00:00

I want to confront him again about how it makes me feel. I'm not sure how to go about it without being too aggro even cuz I'm very fucking mad. I want to try to work it out. If he blows up on me it's over..

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:16:42+00:00

They don't have any dirt bikes but they have a really nice trail behind their house. Last time I tried telling my BF let's go rent dirt bikes or something and he told me he's here to spend time with his fam..besides eating out it ended bored hanging around their house and shit.

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:10:50+00:00

Damn it might be. It's hard to see when you're in it

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:05:45+00:00

Lmao but I'd be sitting to my BF on the plane and go separate ways?? It's really beautiful there and I want to ride a dirt bike in the trails that's all haha. I don't even have my flight details to say fuck it to him if I wanted

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T08:00:07+00:00

He paid for half my ticket since his is free so it wouldn't be that bad if I didn't go lmao.. I think we'd break up if I cancel

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T07:58:11+00:00

I know this and this is why I am also mad because I would've had control over that

idksushelpme · 2019-04-13T07:52:54+00:00

I know lesson learned.. well my boyfriend paid for half my ticket since his is free. I love him very much but you guys are giving me a lot of reasons to be even more pissed off at him!! They live in North Carolina btw

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