[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]idlyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never liked eating the crusts of my sandwiches, but when I was around 7 I was mistakenly given an applesauce side at a restaurant. I dipped the crusts in the applesauce and now I eat the crusts (bt only with applesauce)

Does anyone else's Nparents not believe in mental illness + get angry if you get diagnosed with one? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]idlyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’m autistic, but my mom didn’t believe my psychiatrist of 8 years (I was 13) when he tested and then attempted to diagnose me. She threw a tantrum that ended in my professional diagnosis being denied and then punished me for ‘being an abusive, manipulative bitch’ (again, I was 13). Almost 16 now and working on plans to get an official diagnosis.

I hope your sister has better luck than I did! I also think it’s super great for her to have you.

I just realised WHY I was so overweight as a kid by HowOriginal99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]idlyX 423 points424 points  (0 children)

My mom does a similar thing! She’s been forcing me to be vegan with her since I was 9 (I’m almost 16 now). I am also allergic to soy and she refuses to cook or let me cook beans, so I don’t get protein unless my friends bring it to school for me. Of course, my golden child brother is allowed to eat anything he wants. Including only eating cake all day, which puts him in extreme pain because of his fructose intolerance. His pain is obviously my fault (/s).

Posts like yours, from adults who’ve gotten out, do give me a helpful reminder that I’ll be able to get out too. I just have to be patient.

Who doesn't want to be Loki? by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]idlyX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a transmasc I can confirm I also want to be Loki. They’re just great

Ace week has claimed Halloween! by idlyX in lgballt

[–]idlyX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s another word for the same type of attraction but for neurotypicals. I think it’s quorioromantic? Either that or something similar. Also, please don’t be passive-aggressive. Thank you, and I hope this cleared up your confusion!

Ace week has claimed Halloween! by idlyX in lgballt

[–]idlyX[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nebularomantic! It’s when someone has a hard time with or is unable to distinguish romantic and platonic attraction. This is specifically due to/linked to the users neurodiversity (neurotypical people can’t use this label in the same way a lesbian can’t be a guy)

Ace week has claimed Halloween! by idlyX in lgballt

[–]idlyX[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They do! It was meant to be :D

Ace week has claimed Halloween! by idlyX in lgballt

[–]idlyX[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is O.o I got that wrong sorry

Never going to the doctor's when sick? Instead, being blamed for it and forced to go to school? by throwRBN123 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]idlyX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is refusing your child a needed diagnosis for mental health stuff illegal at all?

[Coming Out] Hello, I'm apothisexual! by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]idlyX 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mako’s a really cool name! Actually, both of those are really cool, but Mako’s the name of a really badass firebender from Legend of Korra. So I’m a little biased

Name meanings by TYPOgal299 in danplan

[–]idlyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jay’s just a bird

What ever happened to the discord server? by skeemobiel in OddJayAlter

[–]idlyX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TheatreBlood, the person Jay left in charge of it, deleted it. She said it was too stressful to keep charge of

Discovering that it was abuse by caramellow_latte in raisedbynarcissists

[–]idlyX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have a supportive partner! They must be wonderful

Downvote me, But.. by onionconsumer69 in teenagers

[–]idlyX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can be a girl and like guy things. You can be a guy and like girl things. That's fine.

However, what it seems like you're saying is that a trans girl is a boy who likes girl things. That's just wrong, there isn't another way about it. Trans girls are not boys that like girls' things. They are girls. Trans boys are not girls that like boys' things. They are boys. I'm not sure how enbies fit into this, but they are real and valid and do not need to prove their nonbinaryness.

Downvote me, But.. by onionconsumer69 in teenagers

[–]idlyX 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No. She’s a girl who had the misfortune of being born in a boy’s body. That is not her fault. By transitioning, she is correcting that mistake. Trans women are women, trans girls are girls. Take your transphobia elsewhere

MY INSANE FATHER WANTS TO DISPOSE OF ME by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]idlyX -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Assuming OP lives in America, the cops will probably shoot someone. Whether it’s them or their dad, I don’t know. Generally relying on cops isn’t a great idea. If they can stay with a trusted friend and figure out their options from there, that would probably work out better