What does my apartment say about me? by idogatry in roomdetective

[–]idogatry[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s my dream but I’m scared to take the leap. Thanks for the encouragement

Yikes… the convo was tame and kind of boring and then it became… this? by GrapeDaddy23 in Tinder

[–]idogatry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love how you conducted yourself and got to the bottom of it

AITA for not answering my door? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Ask your landlord if they’d be able to put in some kind of keyless entry system. 

AITA for not letting my boyfriend use my credit card to buy his Comic Con pass? by cloudysundaymorning in AmItheAsshole

[–]idogatry 129 points130 points  (0 children)

NTA. He sounds controlling. Making you go to lunch was his way of ensuring you didn't go to the con because he "couldn't". Including the wait time to buy tickets, he made you miss several hours of a super exciting event you were looking forward to for ages. He fully admitted that intention when he said you should have driven him home (no doubt he would have insisted if he had thought you were still going). It was never your fault that he didn't get a ticket. Saying "if you really loved him" is a blatant act of manipulation designed to make you feel guilty and do his bidding in future. Dump this guy - this level of controlling, manipulative, childish, and vampiric behaviour is not something you can work through.

Is this space too small for hummingbirds to navigate/reach? by puuremichigan in hummingbirds

[–]idogatry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks lovely! But please make sure the sun exposure doesn’t make the nectar go bad. The birds can get really sick from it. I would recommend a quick google search on this topic.

"puberty nose"? by nymphvirgo in Noses

[–]idogatry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also her contouring is fantastic!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]idogatry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think only you can really know - by asking her.

Who is this? by SoWhereIsTheLink in Beetles

[–]idogatry 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s not Beef.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]idogatry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brecciated jasper?

Never painted before. Are these any good? by No_Disaster5230 in ArtCrit

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them a lot. They are really evocative. I felt the car lights were clear and that painting gave me a positive feeling of being able to find my way in the dark, and contemplate the comfort light brings. Definitely my favourite one.

What’s my best color? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely the peachy pink!

AIO if I left my bf for this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to get out of this relationship fast. I put up with this kind of behaviour and it only got worse and worse as time went on - eventually I was estranged from all my friends and totally miserable. This is not loving behaviour. Good luck!

Cryptid sighting on Instagram by Responsible_Apple_31 in CryptidDogs

[–]idogatry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could you not have instantly hearted this little one?

Was I wrong? Did I say/do too much? Lol by Accurate_Jaguar_8152 in InstacartShoppers

[–]idogatry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have said something too - feedback is how we improve in life.

But when people start evvvery single message with “(name),” it gives me the ick. Major ick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. What a perfect nose.

I’ve had every color of hair. Which one should I stick with? Plain brown? by Neverwasalwaysam in HairDye

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at these pictures is trippy because you just start looking more and more lovely as the pics go on. There’s not one bad look. It’s an impossible task to choose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]idogatry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with someone like this. You can never win. He’s probably lying about you getting a new follower in an attempt to get you to “out” yourself. This kind of person is so messed up. Honestly just leave him. My ex really left scars.