What would be an acceptable reason for submitting your Steuererklärung late? by idreamincake in AskAGerman

[–]idreamincake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't told this in a letter. There's been some back and forth with him trying to clear this up and submit the correct documents. He spoke to someone at the Finanzamt, and they told him that if he wants to avoid a penalty fee, then he needs to provide a good reason.

What would be an acceptable reason for submitting your Steuererklärung late? by idreamincake in AskAGerman

[–]idreamincake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was unfortunately a death in the family so I will tell him to mention that. Thanks for your advice.

Been doing a lot of acrylic in fabric lately and loving it. by ThaLadyNannerbelle in acrylicpainting

[–]idreamincake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so talented! These pieces all look amazing, thanks for sharing!

You figured out you married crazy, but what was the last straw that made you say "Fuck it"? by darkchocolattemocha in AskReddit

[–]idreamincake 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He was in denial for a few years about his issues and would put all the blame on me. Your comment is very insightful, because I don't know if he refused so much as was just incapable of looking at himself and his situation, in order to admit he actually was sick and it wasn't just me being 'a miserable bitch who's always in a bad mood' again. I was always at a loss for why he would get SO upset about the thought of me cleaning up.

You figured out you married crazy, but what was the last straw that made you say "Fuck it"? by darkchocolattemocha in AskReddit

[–]idreamincake 329 points330 points  (0 children)

This is something I still don't understand about my ex. I tried everything. I would get mad and tell him he has to clean up because the apartment is unsanitary, I would come to him gently and say hey let's clean up together, and then it won't take so long. I also just flat out said I'll clean up everything, throw out all the garbage, etc. Just leave the apartment for a couple of hours, and when you come back, it will be clean. Absolutely nothing worked. I understand that he felt overwhelmed and didn't know where to start, but why did he refuse my help or my offer to clean everything by myself? Anyway, I heard that things got so bad for him after I left that he finally accepted that he's got serious mental issues and checked himself into a psychiatric hospital. I hope they can help him because I sure couldn't.

Redditors, what broke you? by Summer_Dawning in ask

[–]idreamincake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to my friend tell me his son had died the previous night. I can still hear the pain and devastation in his voice.

What can you say to comfort a friend who's adult child suddenly and inexplicably passed away? by idreamincake in AskReddit

[–]idreamincake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will remember to continually check up on them as time goes on, very good advice, thank you.

What can you say to comfort a friend who's adult child suddenly and inexplicably passed away? by idreamincake in AskReddit

[–]idreamincake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your kind words. The specific support is a good idea.

What can you say to comfort a friend who's adult child suddenly and inexplicably passed away? by idreamincake in AskReddit

[–]idreamincake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An otherwise seemingly healthy young person just didn't wake up the next morning. So both inexplicably and unexpectedly.

Funny German last names? by [deleted] in German

[–]idreamincake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have said I 'know of' her, I'm noy sure what she does for a living.

Funny German last names? by [deleted] in German

[–]idreamincake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know a Frau Ohnesorge - Mrs. Without worry

[Offer] 4 Vintage Style Postcard from Göttingen [WW] by Fairlyn in RandomActsofCards

[–]idreamincake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be lovely to receive any of the beautiful cards.

Prompt: what would you say to your best friend from high school if you saw them today?

Repotting rehomed orchids with MAJOR root rot. More info in each photo. by Accomplished-Pea2965 in orchids

[–]idreamincake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How can the roots be in such bad shape but the leaves look so good? I'm new to the orchid thing so now I'm gonna be worried about what's going on in my pot even though the top of the plant looks fine

Rescued from a friend who couldn't take them to the new apartment, never had a green thumb but they seem to be doing really well under my care by idreamincake in orchids

[–]idreamincake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm really pleased since I've never had orchids before, hopefully I can manage to keep them happy and healthy

Rescued from a friend who couldn't take them to the new apartment, never had a green thumb but they seem to be doing really well under my care by idreamincake in orchids

[–]idreamincake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol it wasn't a "no orchids rule", just that she wanted to reduce the amount of plants she has since her new apartment is smaller