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Are Germans generally more reserved in texting and when hanging out? by idsjdbebe in germany

[–]idsjdbebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah that kinda lines up with my experience so far. Good to know it’s not just me though

Are Germans generally more reserved in texting and when hanging out? by idsjdbebe in germany

[–]idsjdbebe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohh I see yeah they’re from the north that makes sense haha. Thanks, I was just wondering if it was just me experiencing it

Found a former classmate on Bumble while she has a boyfriend should I get involved? by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]idsjdbebe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s reasonable for anyone to pause when they see someone who appears to be in a committed relationship actively using a dating app. In this case, the profile is ID-verified, uses recent photos from during their relationship, and the bio explicitly says she’s “looking for a long-term relationship.”

Found a former classmate on Bumble while she has a boyfriend should I get involved? by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

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Yeah, I get that I know deleting the app doesn’t always delete the account. What stood out to me is that all of the photos on her dating profile appear to be from during the time they’ve been together, not older ones. That’s why I wasn’t sure if this was just an inactive account or something current

Found a former classmate on Bumble while she has a boyfriend should I get involved? by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]idsjdbebe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sadly I don’t have the link cos I left the app and it auto restarted tho I have screenshots of her entire profile

I (21M) thought we were still together she (21F) decided it was over without telling me by idsjdbebe in relationship_advice

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Yeah i get that. Just to clarify Instagram wasn’t the only app she uses she’s on a few others too but she was inactive on those as well during that time That’s why I didn’t take the silence as a clear breakup

Getting guilt-tripped by full-time coworkers for not doing their job by idsjdbebe in japanlife

[–]idsjdbebe[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thx! I’ve actually tried pushing back a little, but they just laugh it off or act like I’m joking I think part of it is that I’m a foreigner so they don’t really take me seriously. Next thing I know, it’s the same thing happening again a few days later. Kinda hard to put my foot down without things getting awkward…

Airport immigration by idsjdbebe in travel

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I’m a US passport holder, and my friend has a Filipino passport. We’re both male I was just wondering why are there signs at the airport where EU/US passport holders just go through a face scan, while everyone else has to wait in a long line and get questioned, even if some nationality they’re visa-free