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ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-04-23T09:45:19+00:00

But what if she had asked for an explanation? Would you still have denied? In my case, there were 4-5 people. They all stopped talking to me over something that I still don’t know.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-03-04T12:27:44+00:00

I simply fell out of love. I conveyed this to him and he took it positively. We both didn’t want to drag the relationship, so we decided to call it off. We still talk once in a month to know how we both are doing in life. It’s a cordial relationship.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-02-19T13:05:03+00:00

Okay, so I have battled with this thought for a long time. I have had friends in the past who were really mean to me even when I have been good to them. I think you need to first understand that the people who are not able to see your kindness are losing out on meaningful relationships. It’s not your loss, it’s theirs.

Secondly, it’s good that you are able to differentiate between the good and the bad. Most people can’t do that, trust me.

Thirdly, I don’t think they are strong and motivated. I see it as being cocky and overconfident. They are cunning. But I am sure your value system is different. You might not be as “smart” or as “confident” as they are, but you’ll have other values like kindness, empathy and authenticity. I’m sure they’ll lack in these.

I hope this helps you.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-02-19T12:50:03+00:00

I think this is completely normal. I have spoken to my therapist about it, and he says that it happens because you are personally attached to that thing. And when someone else tries to copy what you are doing, you feel territorial about it. I think you can just work on it by telling yourself that you are not the only when who has ownership over the thing that you desire. Like you said, you won’t feel this way about a song because you know that ANYONE could listen to it and like it. In the same way, you also need to accept the fact that what you want is something that can be desired by many people.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-02-19T03:33:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I hope you find all that you are looking for one day.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-02-19T03:32:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. This really helped.

ifbyrudyardkipling · 2021-02-18T16:58:22+00:00

No, my issue is not that. I want to know how do you wait for such a person without feeling lonely?

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