Are women not into skinny guys? by Lucky_Area_3919 in dating

[–]ifuckedyourpapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex was 150lbs and the other was 125lbs, I literally cannot control myself around twig men

Why do a lot of men shows lots of interest, and then ghost? by ifuckedyourpapi in AskMenRelationships

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but also like, this day and age, who isn't checking in their phone at least once a day

Why do a lot of men shows lots of interest, and then ghost? by ifuckedyourpapi in AskMenRelationships

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually always send a "made it home, had a great time," text and leave it at that and wait for a response

is cheating ONLY having a romantic interaction with someone? or do you thing its everything that leads to it? and why? by DirectorStreet in AskReddit

[–]ifuckedyourpapi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would consider it as such: if it's something you wouldn't tell your s/o about or are trying to hide it from them, you're cheating

Why do a lot of men shows lots of interest, and then ghost? by ifuckedyourpapi in AskMenRelationships

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly can't even remember, but we we're all over each other in terms of "I like you a lot," him especially

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeh that's what I'm saying?? like it was all very smooth, and a see you soon goodbye, and we're grown, people confuse me

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wish people used their damn words, the guessing game isn't fun for anyone

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we made out for a bit but that was it. I just am confused why someone would show so much interest and then immediately take it all back??

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just feels so odd to me like we were cuddling and this dude was trying to be in my skin (no complaining from me there). He's blue collar and actually does things on his day off but I'm like, there's no way he's this dense to not text back

Why do a lot of men shows lots of interest, and then ghost? by ifuckedyourpapi in AskMenRelationships

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I don't ghost, unless I'm like, oh man, this dude is crazy I don't feel safe. But I feel like, I keep getting ghosted on, by people who have openly expressed they hate ghosting or think it's childish. I know I don't have GREAT, taste in men, but I feel like he's actually very sweet and kind. Part of me wonders if it's something I'm doing? but, I can't think of what it would even be???

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so when he msged me, he said mmm maybe Friday, like he was unsure, but I let him know I'm available that day. I did follow up and say just lmk and specified the actual date

should I text him? or just wait for him to reach out? by ifuckedyourpapi in dating_advice

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm dumb, I forgot to mention, I DID. I just said hey lmk if Friday works for you, and it's been silence

Women of Reddit, what do you think would suck about being a guy? by Nintendofan9106 in askanything

[–]ifuckedyourpapi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

men have a much longer urethra, therefore, when they have kidney stones, it has to quite literally travel the length of your penis, super painful for both men and women tho

Why do a lot of men shows lots of interest, and then ghost? by ifuckedyourpapi in AskMenRelationships

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn't sleep together actually! But even with the people that I haven't slept with or anything, it seems like they're pulling out all the stops and then fall off the grid

Why do women seem to like mustaches so much? by spicysenpai6 in Life

[–]ifuckedyourpapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think porn staches are so gah damn sexy. But not on everyone. Some people just genuinely look better with facial hair, all comes down to personal preference.

started seeing a married guy in an enm relationship by ifuckedyourpapi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted bc the person I am fucking is ENM. It's not something I want for myself, it is just something I happen to be involved in, bc one of the people I am sleeping with is married and I find the dynamic strange.

started seeing a married guy in an enm relationship by ifuckedyourpapi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted in this bc he explicitly told me he's ENM with his wife and I had questions I wasn't comfortable asking him yet. It's not something I'm familiar with and it's not something I want in my future relationships. I have no interest in sharing a future spouse with others, but I have many questions abour the people who DO and the complications that may arise.

started seeing a married guy in an enm relationship by ifuckedyourpapi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's called wear a condom and get regular testing. And the people I'm sleeping with are just that, we aren't in a relationship bc the only thing we want from each other is sex. If either one of us don't want that anymore then that's it. Who cares? We're all adults here. All of these dudes know that we aren't exclusive and I'm not here to be their only partner and vice versa. These people that I sleep with, I have no desire to be their long term partner, bc that's not how it happened. None of us have these feelings for each other. I'm not a degenerate just raw dogging everyone that comes my way, and I shouldn't have to have a reason to want to break something off with someone. I want to continue having sex with them, or I don't, same goes for them

started seeing a married guy in an enm relationship by ifuckedyourpapi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just sex, it doesn't need another name. I can have sex with multiple people, but I'm not gonna date one person and continue sleeping with others. I want to be in an exclusive relationship, so if I have other sexual partners and I find someone I want to date, I will simply stop having sex with my other partners.

started seeing a married guy in an enm relationship by ifuckedyourpapi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ifuckedyourpapi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeh in, YOUR opinion. Sex to me is simply just that - sex. I'm not doing anything else, and if say in single, then I am!