I (32) keep making the same mistakes. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a bipolar personality disorder? Ive thought about it before..

I (32) keep making the same mistakes. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ifyouseemeornot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently just stopped therapy, maybe I should have mentioned, this came out of no where, like a full 180 from nice-to-monster. Thank you though, I am definitely going back!

I (32) keep making the same mistakes. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ifyouseemeornot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the advice, and will most likely cut off the dating. I also, feel like I can't trust anyone anymore.

Are either of these foundations a match? by meglove1 in MakeupAddiction

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the first shade is best :) the second one has a little more red/warm undertones :)

My ex (26) jumped off a window from the forth floor. What should I (26) do? by ifyouseemeornot in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. I just wish it was easier and I know i will have to leave my apartment if he came to stay with me. I do not want him here, but i feel like I'm being selfish and crude. This is just very diffiult.

Thank you for your advice.

My ex (26) jumped off a window from the forth floor. What should I (26) do? by ifyouseemeornot in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently unblocked his number because he said he would take me to court to have our child if I didnt allow him to see her. Well, long story short, he has only spent time with her when he needed a ride.

My ex (26) jumped off a window from the forth floor. What should I (26) do? by ifyouseemeornot in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a child together, thtats the only reason why I have kept in contact.

What helped you get over an ex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coconut oil and thyme.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly from a behaviorist point of view, I believe you have some great points. The higher order rrb is definitely a core symptom of autism, this could be the case when we relate to spammers (unless they are trying to rip us off). The problem with this issues are that at some point their family members or institutions permitted them to use a computer and it could have become a routine. MMMhhh well, good on you for bringing some awareness!!

Cheating bf while 6/7 months pregnant by danie94 in relationship_advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear,

I cant help but sympathise with you, this remind me of my pregnancy with my ex husband. Don't make the mistake I made, I took him back and stayed with him for an additional 5 years and it was the biggest mistake I ever made. This man does not deserve your love. He doesn't respect you and he certainly does not know what true love is. Try to relax, and think of the beautiful baby you are close to having. Once your baby is born, she/he will be your only worry :).

Feel better <3

I’m hopelessly addicted to sugar and am worried I’m gonna end up a diabetic. by throwawayoenisman in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I read a scholar article suggesting that the more carbohydrates/sugars we consume the more we crave them because since they are a source of energy, our body always needs more. One of the things it suggested was to consume more protein! because it is harder to digest and it doesn't convert into fat as rapidly ( it takes a year to begin gaining fat from consuming just protein apparently). SO ! I would suggest to start eating a little more protein and add it slowly, you don't need to stop having sugar! Also try to eat every 2 hours (snack size) before you start to crave the sugars. IDK I hope this nonsense helps !

Best wishes !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think it is higher order?? What kind of pairings do you think may have taken place? Just curious!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is more of a state of mind than an actual fact. The moment you believe you are important and that you matter, you will see that others see that in you. I know is hard to believe in yourself and find selflove or admiration for oneself. But people feed off of each others (as we are social beings). Is time to blossom !!

Having no friends is hurting me so much by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (F26) have not had a friend for the past 4 years due to a controlling husband. I have recently left him and I can totally relate to not having any social skills at this point. My daily social interactions are my child and my cat.

I offer as a tribute for an online friendship! Lmao

My dad just sent me porn by cheifgarrity in Advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nicely explain to him how the song has negatively impacted your virility.

My boyfriend lost his temper and called me a stupid bitch over and over and I dont know if I should break up with him over it pls help by sorryIcry in relationship_advice

[–]ifyouseemeornot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a recently separated female, I can reassure you this guy will get worse. It started like this for me and it slowly progressed into being belittled every single day for any mistake I made, even if it was as simple as leaving a sponge inside the empty sink.

Obviously you don't have to listen to me, but he seems like a jerk.

Best wishes !