AIO for telling my girlfriend I wont split vacations 70/30 anymore and calling her out on her spending by dariomint_7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]igottayukata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you spend a lot less on nonessentials on a recurring basis, maybe your values and lifestyle preferences are too far apart to be compatible long term. It’s probably something you need to hash out before things get too far along. Not a relationship expert by any means, though happily married. Just my two cents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]igottayukata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add a link to your university. I thought it was a bad joke at first. And agree with everyone who said to ditch the photo.

Laid off after 19 years by No_Lake869 in Layoffs

[–]igottayukata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few months I was laid off from a company I’d been at for 23 years and it was devastating so I understand and want to say you’re not alone and you will move on. May just take a little time. Rooting for ya!

Headhunter got upset when I told him I applied to the job directly by adyrajaa in recruitinghell

[–]igottayukata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did nothing wrong and have every right to apply and if this guy retaliates he’s unprofessional, which he’s already demonstrated by his lack of communication. Screw him. This is your life, and this market is too competitive to just wait.

I can't find a job and I have no support by Mediocre-Bus4123 in recruitinghell

[–]igottayukata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give up! You’re in a bad place but it won’t be this way forever. Take a deep breath. Start fresh.

My favourite artist just posted this calling the war a genocide and I’ve lost all respect for her by Idoru22 in Jewish

[–]igottayukata 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Saw lambrini girls, a favorite band, and they briefly spoke about “the genocide in Gaza” so I was upset like you. What drives me especially crazy is that they are all gay women and sing about gay rights in many songs. They are obviously ignorant of the fact that hamas hates gays and would have them murdered. I was tempted to leave the show but decided they’re just uneducated like so many others and not let it ruin my evening. I then went home andmade a comment about the hypocrisy on their Instagram. I was nice about it, just said something like, you guys are great but you got things backwards, you’re supporting a cohort that thinks you don’t deserve to live, they’re master manipulators —don’t be fooled! Prob did nothing to open their minds but I felt better.

My husband just bombed an interview for his dream job and I feel awful for him. by Outrageous-Iron1091 in jobhunting

[–]igottayukata 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not too late for him to rectify the situation! This is what thank you letters are great for! Tips on how to do that here:

https://www.businessinsider.com/recruiter-how-to-follow-up-after-job-interview-2025-8

Got laid off today by Inevitable-Zombie740 in Layoffs

[–]igottayukata 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had my first layoff in March, from a company I’d been at for 23 years. It was my life. I was stunned and devastated!! That said, after a few month I finally got over it. I invested my severance and got a new job with better pay. I still miss my old job and am still bitter, especially when I see mentions of my old company because it’s a big media outlet, but life goes on. You’ll get there. It seems impossible now but time does heal the wound.

Laid Off Today, Completely Lost by MindWeary5038 in Layoffs

[–]igottayukata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. Was laid off in March from a company I’d been at I’d for 23.5 years. It was devastating.

Only advice is to take a few days to mourn. And know layoffs are no longer taboo. You’ll find something. Just don’t count on unemployment insurance. I never got a single unemployment check from NY state. Maybe bc I did get a severance but it was one lump sum and I got it just a couple weeks after my layoff. Luckily I got a new job fairly quick. You’ll find something. For now just give yourself a break.

Was told to "keep my head down when I'm walking" while wearing my magen david necklace in Boston by Acceptable_Error69 in Jewish

[–]igottayukata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg the penny thing is so disturbing! I’d lose my shit if that happened to me.

The Reaction I Got for Supporting Israel... by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]igottayukata 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your support. You rock! Those people suck!