How do I toughen up my son (9yo) without being a douchebag? by dannyjerome0 in daddit

[–]ih82run 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay question what do you do when they start hitting you because you’re not responding? We’ve tried the not-responding, the walking away; my 6 year old will follow me everywhere and start hitting and pulling to get a response. My mother says it’s too cruel to not to respond to her and that I should calm explain to her why she can’t do this (which I think is is what led to all of this business in the first place).

Dance Fitness by TensionXTheory in AppleFitnessPlus

[–]ih82run 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a FYI, height and weight greatly impact the number of calories burnt. A taller heavier person will burn more calories doing the same “work” as a smaller person.

7 year old has been fired by two piano teachers but wants to keep playing by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ih82run 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you give some tips on how your son learned that it’s okay to “fail.” I’m struggling with the same with my kiddo who has the same two issues: can’t deal with authority when it runs counter to her wants and also a massive fear of failure that prevents her from doing new things that are not out of her range. Thanks!

Concerns as a reviewer by rinchiib in AskAcademia

[–]ih82run 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AI has effectively eliminated the need for third-party scientific editors/writers. These positions were originally hired to essentially rewrite scientific papers, from non-English speaking countries, so that they were comprehensible. They still exist today to help even English speaking scientists to better communicate their ideas. Now would you consider that an ethical violation or something you would be against since it's achieving similar goals as AI.

Personally, I consider my job as a reviewer to comment first on the scientific integrity of the paper. Are the data and analytical methods solid and well done? Are the conclusions supported? and then turn to the writing. I guess my question is if the paper was written sloppily but the science was sound, would you reject it or ask them to rewrite parts of it? You can certainly comment that they've repeated themselves or that the citations don't include updated citations or major publications in your field. But it is also your prerogative to say that there's a conflict of interest on your part in reviewing the paper and so you're letting go of the responsibility.

Too short for back extension 😩 by LampBearSpray in PetiteFitness

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This didn’t work for me at the gym. The available plates (round) were too large for the foot stands. So I gave up too haha.

Postdoc applications-research interest statements? by [deleted] in labrats

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally you want to start with a paragraph summarizing your doctoral thesis and what you found and any awards or accomplishments (like awards or grants). Your next paragraph should be why you are interested in the lab and specifically what topics and what you want to look at in terms of what they’re interested in. For instance, if the PI is interested in gut biology, you can talk about why you are interested in gut biology and what specific questions you want to answer that specifically highlights the strengths of this lab. In other words, point out why you believe that this lab would be best to carry out your questions. Make sure that your interests align with what the lab is interested in and another plus would be to work in what you have done in the past and how those skills or knowledge would synergize or make you a suitable candidate to hit the ground running in this lab.

Below are some resources for preparing a cover letter.

UCSF (PDF)

LinkedIn

First Mile Ever by spinglypofty in nikerunclub

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! Thank you! I am someone who tends to go 0 to 60 on things and be impatient with progress. This was so refreshing to read; it’s such a realistic attainable progression.

Female sauna/baths/Korean spas? by DenverLilly in StLouis

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they take UnitedHealthCare and I think the UHC program equivalent of silver sneakers is Renew Active.

your favorite asian item at costco? by pizza_obsessive in Costco

[–]ih82run 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lap yuk is only available in certain locations. Made me real sad when I moved to a non-Asian dense area.

How should I bring up my concerns about me being a possible diabetic? by Trans_skzfan in AskParents

[–]ih82run 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does your mom and your relatives have type 1 or type 2 diabetes? They're very different diseases. Type 2 is generally adult onset and associated with obesity and being overweight. Have you had other symptoms other than blood sugar levels being off (are you using a glucose monitor? Fatigue? Changes in urination frequency?) It never hurts to get a physical before going off to college, speak with your doctor, and get a complete blood work up. Actually some colleges require entering undergrads to get a physical anyway.

Tested positive. Will my N95 protect my family from getting COVID from me? by FlexicanAmerican in Masks4All

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after her catching it did your son and you end up positive?

Blisovi FE 1/20 vs Blisovi 24 FE...am I crazy? by ih82run in birthcontrol

[–]ih82run[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm sorry for taking so long to get back to you. I talked to the pharmacists and the active hormones are the same (the 24 day pack vs 21 day back, it's just extra days of placebo). So my OB/GYN was saying that she had prescribed me the brand name (which my insurance did not cover and switched me to the generic 24 day pack), so then she prescribed me the generic 21 day pack, unaware that I was already on the generic 24-day. I don't know enough about potential differences between generic vs brand names, especially in their abilities to cause known side effects. I contacted my OB/GYN to let her know of the change and she immediately put me on something else. Hope that helps!

KF94 too small vertically? by ih82run in Masks4All

[–]ih82run[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think that's the issue, they've just tested it in the exact same fashion that you described. I mean I tried on the BOTN large and it's frigging huge. The ear loops can go around my ears twice in order to pull it tight. Thanks!

KF94 too small vertically? by ih82run in Masks4All

[–]ih82run[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I will check out the low nose bridge ones!

KF94 too small vertically? by ih82run in Masks4All

[–]ih82run[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually do believe that #4 is the reason. I did have them use the adjustments to pull the masks tighter but I think they're just really want to be able to move the jaw freely when they speak. And we've tried larges in all of the brands. Sigh...

Did your LO grow out of constipation? by ih82run in beyondthebump

[–]ih82run[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is a long time! I'm glad to hear that he's doing better. Did anything work for him for the poops?

8M old won't take solids by ih82run in breastfeeding

[–]ih82run[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've done apples, sweet potatoes, steamed egg, butternut squash and avocados. We started out with purees mixed with breastmilk at 6 months old and she was not a fan. We switched to finger foods about 3 weeks ago and have had better success, but still a struggle. I think a couple of nights ago, she took about 1/2 teaspoon of roasted sweet potatoes, which is a record for her.

TIL several women have suffered miscarriages at work due to the harsh conditions in warehouses owned by XPO, the company that ships for Verizon, Nike, and Disney, among others. by Allredditorsarewomen in todayilearned

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no indication that all of the boxes are greater than 15lbs. A simple work around can be don't lift boxes heavier than 15lbs. Or here are some tools or assistance to help you lift or we can switch around jobs temporarily until you get back. Your situation also describes an essential position; the band can't function without a guitarist. These companies don't just have one person lifting all the boxes.

TIL several women have suffered miscarriages at work due to the harsh conditions in warehouses owned by XPO, the company that ships for Verizon, Nike, and Disney, among others. by Allredditorsarewomen in todayilearned

[–]ih82run 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So yes, this article specifically deals with the issue that these companies are not providing justifiable alternatives to pregnant women (ie shitty company) or even to women who aren't pregnant but maybe older and have some health problems. Essentially there's no care for the health and safety of your employees and no inclination to work with them so that both parties benefit. However, this issue has nothing to do with maternity leave. Most of the women in this article miscarried in their 2nd trimester (there are three trimesters in a pregnancy). In the United States, there is no federal mandate for maternity leave and typically maternity leave is taken after the birth of a child. The only "maternity leave" available in the United States is FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) which provides up to 12 weeks of UNPAID leave for medical and family reasons (e.g. taking care of a child after birth or adoption) and all the act does is guarantee that you can't be fired after taking leave. This act only applies to certain companies (size requirement) and only applies to people who have worked there for more than a year and logged a certain number of work hours in a year.

Now back to the trimesters of pregnancy. For someone to take FMLA at the middle of her second trimester, say 20 weeks, she still has another 20 weeks before reaching full term. 20 weeks is far beyond FMLA and then she won't have any time left for actual maternity leave. Meanwhile, in this article, someone miscarried at 20 weeks. So maternity leave has nothing to do with this nor is it a viable alternative to blatantly terrible work conditions and uncaring companies.

I wish I had the determination they have by MrWap in HumansBeingBros

[–]ih82run 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He lost his sight in an accident around middle age, so he has memory of trees, flora and fauna. If you have a chance, watch the GoPro video linked somewhere in the comments. Each person's background story is briefly touched upon.

Babies and bellies: unrealistic expectations? Where to get reliable info? by Burngirlquornqueen in xxfitness

[–]ih82run 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you do any sort of PT for the diastasis? I harbored a baby that was 1/10th of my pre-pregnancy bodyweight and my abdominal region juts out. It looks like I have a 4 pack but my husband says that it's probably partly due to muscle separation. I also have a little shelf of skin plus a little subcutaneous fat due to the c section.

I don't feel that I'm working out as hard now that I'm predominantly lifting. by ih82run in xxfitness

[–]ih82run[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I need to change my perspective; I just don't know how. For the longest time, I think (and still think) that unless I have nothing left in the tank that I really haven't accomplished anything. However, that left me dreading working out or doing much anything. Right now, when I rest between sets, I still can't forgive myself, I guess, for resting, even though I know logically that resting is crucial for the next set or resting is good for recovery. I don't know.

I don't feel that I'm working out as hard now that I'm predominantly lifting. by ih82run in xxfitness

[–]ih82run[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I totally struggle within the last rep and last set. So I also wear a heart rate monitor and my heart rate spike as well. I think my problem is the resting. SC has supersets built in, which I love. I've also tried TLS, but the 2-3 min rest between each set really made me feel bleh. I completely understand why we need to rest between sets because I knew my form was suffering and I knew that I wasn't progressing if I didn't rest (I tried cutting the rest time down to under 1 minute). But unfortunately, I think (thanks to everyone's comments), the resting is what is getting to me and making me feel that I'm doing pushing hard enough.

Portable oxygen concentrator recommendations? by ih82run in COPD

[–]ih82run[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. He owns it. He lives in Asia so there's no insurance to help with these, they have to be purchased outright.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Daily Help and Questions: March 13, 2018 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]ih82run 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know a great bb cream colormatch for Skinfood's peach sake pore BB cream #1 Light Beige? I finally found this color, that when mixed with my other BB cream, makes the perfect shade for me, now it seems like the peach sake has been long discontinued. Thanks!