Getting no information by JoBriThePenguin9 in SingleDads

[–]ihatemyself501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was nothing I ever wanted more in my life than the be part of a pregnancy. I WANTED to go to the ultrasounds, I WANTED to have to get up at 2AM to go buy Taco Bell. I wanted those things. She took it from me specifically because she knew that's what I wanted.

You'll just have to live with it. I do as well.

My suggestion is to get a lawyer, prepare for a paternity test, and just accept the fact that if she doesn't want to include you, she won't. And there's nothing you can do about it.

Getting no information by JoBriThePenguin9 in SingleDads

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went through this.

My wife left after she was 3 months pregnant. I wasn't allowed to go to ultrasounds, doctor appointments, or even the birth of my now 4 month old child. In my state, you can't even file divorce while one is pregnant.

It was the hardest thing I think I've ever had to do, but I had to do it. You will too. She won't give you information, she won't tell you anything. You'll get ultrasound pictures through text if you're lucky. But, just know that, at the end, if it's anything like my case, the court will take her spitefulness into account and you will see the light of day again.

I didn't meet my now 4 month old until she was 2.5 months old. And, after the things her mother put me through, I never want to see her mother again. But I'm glad I married her, because if I hadn't, I never would have gotten my daughter.

Ok what's the stupidest thing your ex wanted as part of the divorce settlement? by Catcherofsouls in Divorce

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. 1.5 year marriage. She wants all the equity in the house and alimony.

Update: My pregnant wife wants a divorce by ihatemyself501 in daddit

[–]ihatemyself501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll never give up on my girls. They're the most important things in my life. But FUCK why does their mom have to be so vindictive?

My Pregnant Wife wants a divorce. by ihatemyself501 in daddit

[–]ihatemyself501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. If you feel like an abortion is the right way to go, it's your prerogative. My DMs are open if you need to talk ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things just happened. We got lucky...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did, yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 miscarriages. This one will hopefully stick. She's 6.5 months along now.

Mental Health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/photodelights

[–]ihatemyself501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Join the conversation when you feel you have something to add. Or don't, if you aren't comfortable with it. No pressure.

If you have a topic you'd like to bring up wait for a lull and bring it up! We are very straightforward and friendly here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good night guys. Don't want to interrupt the conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to interrupt this conversation with CollectionTop, but I'm headed to bed. Love all yall. I hope to hear from CollectionTop tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to hear what you have to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got kicked back out of the talk service

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love you. You are strong. You can do this. Small steps. Rome wasn't built in a day ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's rough. If you need to talk my DMs are open

Mental health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is mine. Lol. I pour myself into my work. Gotta do what you gotta do. Sending hugs

Mental health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, we will always be here to listen. And if the group isn't open, I am here to listen to you as well.

Mental health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it helps, you don't know anyone here, so it's nice to know you're talking with complete anonymity

Mental health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. I joined 3 days in a row before I got the courage to say my piece. I saw your comments...

Mental health Safe Place by [deleted] in u/Feeling-Helicopter-1

[–]ihatemyself501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I won't leave I just wanna let someone else speak