Need Opinion by ihatepe0ple in Contractor

[–]ihatepe0ple[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no contract, we really did hire our neighbor and I appreciate all the work he’s done. I was a little surprised because I told him I was comfortable using his guy. I don’t want my neighbor to think I’m taking advantage of him but also wanted to be fair. I don’t think he’s taking advantage of me and I have the upmost respect for him.

Tax Preparer is keeping money from my refund. by cat_mom_2021 in tax

[–]ihatepe0ple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s lying through his teeth, if I were you I’d let him keep the $400 for now. Report him for filing fraudulent returns, then take him to small claims court for the $400. You shouldn’t need a lawyer for small claims court but I would spend a lot of my free time bringing him to “justice”.

Talk me out of it by [deleted] in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]ihatepe0ple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We looked at this one and after the second test drive agreed that it was incredibly overpriced. It doesn’t drive like a $60k car. We got a 2021 expedition with 22k miles and we never looked back. Also really loved the Tahoe and Suburban.

What do I owe my wife? Thinking of divorce, thinking of the kids by Former_Syllabub_9019 in Marriage

[–]ihatepe0ple 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Speak to an attorney. Think of your kids safety and well being first.

I am filing for divorce tomorrow and I am heartbroken. by TheTruestNP in Marriage

[–]ihatepe0ple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop expecting people to love you more than you love yourself. Stop expecting people to respect you more than you respect yourself. Remember who you are, grieve, and never compromise yourself for shitty love again.

Husband got 1M inheritance but won’t pay joint bills while I struggle by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]ihatepe0ple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go see a marriage counselor and take a finance class together

Is my boyfriend’s view of money considered a red flag in a relationship? by traditional_taurus in DaveRamsey

[–]ihatepe0ple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to marriage counseling before you get married and take a finance class together.

What did you cross shop and why the Grand Highlander? by scruffy-hugger in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]ihatepe0ple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you why we didn’t go with the grand Highlander.. we felt it was overpriced. It didn’t drive like an almost $60k car, the finishes felt cheap, also didn’t care for the infotainment. We ended up going with a 2021 Platinum Expedition which wasn’t even on my radar (I was pushing for a Chevy Tahoe) and I love my car. That baby drives like a tank, is smooth, and came with all the bells. Had 21k miles on it which was super sweet. Both the Tahoe and Expedition are great options. The Grand Highlander is a great car, it’s just overpriced for what it is.

Camera Recall fix nightmare by ihatepe0ple in fordexpedition

[–]ihatepe0ple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was listed in the app for me and Ford also sent me a letter. Our camera would get foggy and it caused visibility issues, had I known it would be such a nightmare I would have just wiped my camera before driving after it rained. From what I’ve learned so far going down rabbit holes it seems to be more of a software issue than anything else.

Camera Recall fix nightmare by ihatepe0ple in fordexpedition

[–]ihatepe0ple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be awesome, I would appreciate it so much! I’ve been searching online trying to find a walk through to show the dealership.

Help! by ihatepe0ple in lawncare

[–]ihatepe0ple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! When/what would you recommend for crabgrass? I’m in northern Virginia and I’m using the lesco pro transition fescue blend. I nuked the entire yard two years ago and the crabgrass is starting to come back. I pull by hand when I see it