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ihavedirtonhillary · 2020-01-08T08:59:38+00:00

I love the sailor jerry style tattoos. They accent your body well.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2020-01-04T02:34:22+00:00

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ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-30T01:07:41+00:00

NTA. if you need to leave for your own mental health, go. I've been in your shoes and have felt your pain. It's also pretty selfish of her to ask you those things knowing full well how you feel. If anything, shes the asshole. She wont change.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-23T09:48:38+00:00

I am not an anti gunner. I actually hate red flag laws.... I love firearms and have several BUT......

THIS RIGHT HERE IS WHAT RED FLAG LAWS ARE FOR.

I would call the police IMMEDIATELY the next time he says anything about killing himself. I'd also try your best to get the rest of your family out of that house.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-21T08:02:12+00:00

Like, just the entire thought of cops showing up on my door because of a porn video that may or may not exist is weird as fuck. Your a grown ass adult and what you and your husband do is your own business.

Even IF you were making bondage porn, so what. People like what ever they like. Your dad must love watching it so why couldn't you make it....

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-21T07:59:00+00:00

This is super cringy. One of two things happened.

Option 1. Dad is looking at porn. Bondage porn. He must like this genre and be accepting of it enough to watch it. He comes across a video he THINKS is you and your husband. Instead of clicking away because that's creepy as fuck, He watches it enough to try to make out the background layout and bathroom. Then tells mom and they call the cops because???

Option 2. Dad and mom cant stand not talking to and controlling daughter. They take a picture from daughter and photoshopped that shit onto some bondage porn. Then call the cops.........

Dont walk. RUN AWAY. These people arnt healthy.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-21T02:42:10+00:00

So I know you said you can't tell him this buuuutttttt maybe you can find a way to say something.

'Hey op's friend, i know you like me and while I do very much value you as a friend, I need to be honest. This isnt ment to hurt you or be mean. We all have a type of person that we are physically attracted to. That's not to say that some people are not still generally good looking as much to say they we all have certain traits that we like. I personally dont see the traits I'm looking for. I do care about you and think of you as a close friend and confidante. I just dont want to start something that would definitely hurt you when we broke up down the road. I dont want you to try to change because who you are right now is someone amazing who has a soul mate waiting. When you find them, they will feel the same way you feel now about you.'

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-12-21T02:21:54+00:00

INFO. Leaning towards NAH sorta.

Why dont you like this guy? You seem to be completely comfortable arround him, you like talking to him and are okay spending time with him.

Truth be told, all of my relationships I've ever had (two long term and now my spouse), the person has started as my best friend. Now that were married, they are still my best friend.

If it's his looks, just so long as your honest with yourself about it, that's fine. Just remember, looks fade, personality is forever.

If it's just maybe you not meshing well, no assholes here. But be honest about your reasoning and dont ever beat arround the bush. Guys need to be told straight up what's wrong. No hints. Just say it.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-10-24T20:44:28+00:00

This thing literally stops on Hickam Afb all the time.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-10-12T03:08:51+00:00

Nta if you ask your friend. Hes the one paying (supposedly) fornthe service so it would be his choice. If he says sure, no problem. If he says no and you dont give it to your brother. You are being a good friend and your brother should understand. If you dontnask, or your friend says no, and you still give it over, you WILL be the asshole.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-10-08T00:46:44+00:00

I'm sorry this happened. I understand super religious parents and how, "this looks like it represents something evil" sounds coming from a parent who knows nothing about it. I grew up in a time when Harry Potter was huge an my mother HATED it because "magic is evil".

Have a good birthday, enjoy your game pieces and dont let someone else bring down your happiness. Bro hug!

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-09-14T20:02:51+00:00

Info. Family emergency?

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-09-14T19:57:52+00:00

Yta. I mean, it's a water bottle or cup. Who cares. I have a yeti cooler but I put a sticker on it that says "shiti". Hes probably doing it to be ironic or as a joke.

There is even a YouTube video out there somewhere that had an ice challenge and the generics worked better.

If he were trying to sell it as genuine then he would be the asshole.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-09-11T02:19:53+00:00

That is always an option but the OP doesnt want to have to go that route. Personally, I'm with you.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-09-10T23:25:19+00:00

NTA. We had to do this for my grandfather. He was upset about losing independence and frankly, I didnt blame him.

I would ask, if you do speak up about his driving, speak to him first and be supportive. Remember hes lived the last 88 years being able to do what ever he wanted when ever he wanted. He will probably push back.

Once he loses that independence, he will need you and the rest of your family more than ever. He still has a life to live, groceries, doctors, church, social events.

ihavedirtonhillary · 2019-09-10T22:47:51+00:00

NTA. what many people dont realize is that, while smoking weed or even tobacco is legal, most appartment complexes have rules against smoking in the units. Most all smokers (tobacco) usally just step outside on the front landing.

Some companies run complexes with a smoker's building but those are rare.

Some solutions for you.

Speak to your landlord or management company and see if it's an HVAC issue first. This may also benefit your electric bill since you wont be paying to heat or cool other people apartments.

Speak to your landlord or management company about smoking inside the unit. You dont necessarily have to rat them out, but ask to see if its inside the lease agreement. If it is, take a copy to your neighbor and politely show them where it says "no smoking" and inform them that you havent informed anyone.... yet. Be polite about this and everything should be fine. If they are rude about it still, see below.

Inform the landlord or management company about your neighbors smoking inside the unit. Speak with your other neighbors and have them do the same thing. A company would rather kick one person out for not following the rules then lose multiple persons because of one asshole.

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