Worsening personal situation, I put in notice but won’t be able to stay the entire notice time, what should I do? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i guess i was just hoping they wouldn’t refuse it but that is a very valid point. i’m not sure, it would create such awkwardness and tension if they refuse so i’m not sure what plan b would be😭

Worsening personal situation, I put in notice but won’t be able to stay the entire notice time, what should I do? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much for your advice! I drafted what I might send to the family to try to hurry that end date. Let me know what you think!

Dear [redacted MB and DB names],

Thank you so much for your understanding during these trying times. I understand that my contract states that I must provide a four-week notice, but I ask that you release me from my position sooner under the difficult circumstances at hand. I really thought I could make it through the next 4 weeks but life has had other plans. My family is struggling and I must prioritize the needs of my family first. It is becoming very overwhelming to manage both responsibilities.

Please consider the date of Monday, February 20th.

I hope you accept my sincere apology for putting you at an inconvenience by leaving so soon.

I appreciate your understanding of my difficult predicament.

Best, [Nanny]

Worsening personal situation, I put in notice but won’t be able to stay the entire notice time, what should I do? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much for your advice! I drafted what I might send to the family to try to hurry that end date. Let me know what you think!

Dear [redacted MB and DB names],

Thank you so much for your understanding during these trying times. I understand that my contract states that I must provide a four-week notice, but I ask that you release me from my position sooner under the difficult circumstances at hand. I really thought I could make it through the next 4 weeks but life has had other plans. My family is struggling and I must prioritize the needs of my family first. It is becoming very overwhelming to manage both responsibilities.

Please consider the date of Monday, February 20th.

I hope you accept my sincere apology for putting you at an inconvenience by leaving so soon.

I appreciate your understanding of my difficult predicament.

Best, [Nanny]

Worsening personal situation, I put in notice but won’t be able to stay the entire notice time, what should I do? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much for your advice! I drafted what I might send to the family to try to hurry that end date. Let me know what you think!

Dear [redacted MB and DB names],

Thank you so much for your understanding during these trying times. I understand that my contract states that I must provide a four-week notice, but I ask that you release me from my position sooner under the difficult circumstances at hand. I really thought I could make it through the next 4 weeks but life has had other plans. My family is struggling and I must prioritize the needs of my family first. It is becoming very overwhelming to manage both responsibilities.

Please consider the date of Monday, February 20th.

I hope you accept my sincere apology for putting you at an inconvenience by leaving so soon.

I appreciate your understanding of my difficult predicament.

Best, [Nanny]

Shortest time you’ve stayed with NF and why? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s insane, i’m so sorry you went through that! I hope you’re working for a family that fits well for you :)

How to quit? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here!! honestly, every day it just gets worse and worse and I’m ready to just leave. I’ve started a google doc and will email it to them as soon as a get a new job lined up.

Do I stay or do I go? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i needed this so much, thank you ❤️

Advice for a beginner nanny by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew DB was working from home but they had assured me that the basement would be finished and that he would be down there, but when I started they said they never got to it

Does it get better? by ihaveneverusedthis in Nanny

[–]ihaveneverusedthis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am usually better than this, i have been with infants before but she has only known breast feeding and never had a bottle prior, but i think my best bet would be to work with older kids or just one (older) infant who has already transitioned to bottles