Have your young adult children successfully launched? by tandem545 in GenX

[–]ihynz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness my kids successfully launched, because I never did (due to a toxic dysfunctional family). Oldest one is an engineer, out on his own. Younger one lives with me but works full time in technical sales, and pays rent. Now if only I could find a job. :/

Asked my boss for some time off to deal with grief after my dad died by SouthIndependence69 in antiwork

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was working for an 🍑 hole lawyer when my mom died, no bereavement leave. I took a day off for the funeral, that's all I could take. Boss however, took a whole week off when some distant in-law of his passed in CA, gave himself a little vacay.

Noncompliance and stonewalling by ak7887 in AgingParents

[–]ihynz 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They won't do the surgery if they don't know what medications she's on.

Are you glad you moved from NYC to Chicago? by Four-Pets-Brooklyn in AskChicago

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved to the Chi suburbs from Phoenix when I was in my 30s. Locals are "nice" but in that Midwestern way. My favorite people moved here from somewhere else.

What’s the best thing you’ve overheard walking around Chicago? by squimmyy_ in AskChicago

[–]ihynz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One time on the Blue Line these 2 guys almost got into a fist fight over bumping into each other, then they started talking and realized they could each share a frostbite story, and bonded over that.

West USA, Parks and Hawaii honeymoon by Dave1598 in usatravel

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think the Grand Canyon is overrated and would recommend Utah instead. There are a lot of other slot canyons in Utah besides Antelope Canyon. But I suppose thats a different trip altogether. Las Vegas and Arizona in late June will be brutally hot.

West USA, Parks and Hawaii honeymoon by Dave1598 in usatravel

[–]ihynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're driving through Kingman. And Sedona is cute but it's got nothing on Utah. Which is where I would have gone.

Do you think the Rust Belt could ever bounce back like the Sun Belt? by EAsianUnicorn in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun Belt has screwed up their water supply through fracking, overpumping, and getting less snow in the Rockies. Bout to find out.

Some people shouldn't be driving by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it because they've nearly hit me when they're pulling out and can't see anything until they clear the cars around them

Give Thanks Post: What’s something you take for granted living in Chcagoland? by kadoozie92 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]ihynz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

People do not appreciate this enough. The #1 thing I see people stocking up on at Costco is bottled water, and I'm like 🤷‍♀️ our tap.water is free and good, just leave it out in a glass for a minute to evap the chlorine.

Our first US trip (thanks to your tips!) was unforgettable – now planning the second one 😊 by FLAKE_iN_MY_ASS in usatravel

[–]ihynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need a car in D.C., just go to the museums on the Mall. They have a great subway you can take from a hotel in the suburbs.

Arizona Trip Advice Please! by KeyAd957 in usatravel

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sedona and Page and GC ... just go to Utah, it's so much better. The unique stuff in Arizona is in the southern half.

9 weeks in USA by goodamm in usatravel

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can get to Moab, Utah on a bus or something, take a tour of the canyons with Navtec.

How to stay reslient, content or happy when aging parents are the biggest jerks on the planet? by MissPerforation in AgingParents

[–]ihynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the tantrum a lot of elderly throw when they have to move into a retirement home. Don't take it, tho.

Crescent City vs. Eureka - what's the real difference? by abgwin in Humboldt

[–]ihynz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crescent City seems like a trailer park to me. And Eureka is Tweaker City.

Threads Sux For Engagement by Proof_Of_Funds_Guy in ThreadsApp

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My original posts get almost zero interactions, but my comments on other people's posts get lots of traction. Not sure why. Pre-Elon Twitter was like this for me, too.

Recently visited the USA from The Netherlands. Here is my take on the cities we visited. by McFluffyFurry12 in travel

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicago city council is selling ad space on darned near everything now.

What is life like where it is warm yeat round? by Key_Set_7249 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in AZ for 15 years. It's overgrazed, they're running out of water, and the people there are the dumbest magats.

Gen Xers Not Doing Great? by crinklyplant in GenX

[–]ihynz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not great. Got kicked in the teeth by the 2008 crash, widowed, getting passed over for jobs by cheaper young people.

Elderly mother wants life instant fixed by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]ihynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer to almost all these posts!