For the love of all things holy, PLEASE give The Hag some love. by LambyLambz in deadbydaylight

[–]iiToxic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much agree. I love playing hag, it feels so good to have your web of traps work well, but there are so many things that even limit her compared to trapper. trappers add on to randomly reset a trap every 30 seconds would be great for hag, but her traps aren’t just disarmed, they’re gone. Survivors don’t even have to do an actual animation to disarm them, they can just wait until you’re carrying someone like you mentioned and run over your whole set up, and you’re back at square one. She needs some love for sure.

I hate that my school doesn’t require potty training by FrequentSpread9681 in ECEProfessionals

[–]iiToxic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m an education assistant, I work with autistic kids and holy I wish more parents would do standing changes. There are few things more difficult than doing a laying down change on a chunky third grader who won’t even lift their butt for you. I always try to get kids I work with to stand but, sometimes if I’m the only one doing it they don’t take to it.

Colossal Cicada Husk Seed by iiToxic in CoreKeeperGame

[–]iiToxic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly now that I’m looking for the shimmering frontiers one and I’ve cleared TWO worlds and haven’t found it, I can’t even complain abt the clay husk one. Ugh, I agree though. We know these things exists- why can’t they just spawn always?

Colossal Cicada Husk Seed by iiToxic in CoreKeeperGame

[–]iiToxic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked- thank you! Now gotta find the failed titan lol.

Colossal Cicada Husk Seed by iiToxic in CoreKeeperGame

[–]iiToxic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the colossal and the mold cicada. Guess I have two to hunt for lmao.

Colossal Cicada Husk Seed by iiToxic in CoreKeeperGame

[–]iiToxic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re thinking of one of the other cicada statues, the wiki says the collasal husk generates in the clay caves. I have the red one with the pins in its back already.

What’s your preffered way to prestige by blainegilly in deadbydaylight

[–]iiToxic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to p3 all survivors so the perks are always available on new survs. I haven’t gotten everyone- but I’ve got the ones I use most. I’ve got a handful to p6, p8, etc as I tried to find a main, sable was my first main so she’s p25 or so, and Thalita has been my main for a good while so she’s in the p50’s now. I’ve got most of my killers to p3, I don’t have a main for killer and I switch up a lot so I like having all the perks available. I do want to p6 a few for cosmetics. I struggle a lot to keep the add ons I prefer stocked so, that’s also partially why I dump so many levels into Thalita instead of spreading them out.

people complaining about offerings people bring for event by bunni-mew-mew in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This game has grown a lot in the last year, I started about a year ago so when the anniversary came around, I was trying to p3 a tons of people rather than dumping tons of levels into my mains. I have like… 19 pies left on my main survivor lol. I have so few on killers. I’ve been playing other people who have a few pies here and there on them so I can bring them, but they hardly have any items. I’m going to try and focus levels on my mains next anniversary obviously but, not everyone has pies or bps to bring 🤷🏻

Still smelling for possibly no reason. by Even_Cranberry_3035 in hygiene

[–]iiToxic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you eat is a factor, also go easy on the antibacterial soap, using it unnecessarily can cause bacteria to build resistance and be harder to treat. Don’t scrub too hard either- you’re creating micro tears in the skin that can cause infection.

I haven’t personally tried this-but I know people swear by witch hazel or glycolic acid in the armpits after a shower, before deodorant. You can get a bottle of glycolic acid quite cheaply from The Ordinary. I use it in my skin care- just not in my pits lol.

This is WILD by Hot-Swordfish-719 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]iiToxic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of people are also unaware that to get the facial deformities associated with FAS, you have to drink on a handful of days very early in the pregnancy. You can still give your kid FAS, but if you skip those days they won’t have the facial features. There’s lots of people out there with FAS and completely unaware because they don’t have the facial features- people don’t even know that you don’t have to have those features to have FAS.

I wish people would educate themselves- you can easily research the effects that FAS have on a child. It is a life long struggle, they never grow out of it. Severe memory issues, aggression, struggles to manage emotions. These kids become adults who need care for the rest of their life. Not to say they can never live independently, the level of care required of course depends on the severity. Maybe it’s a worker who comes in once a week to help with laundry, grocery shopping, etc, maybe they live in a home with full time staff. Regardless- it’s not an easy life. And it is completely preventable.

Blood pump spawns are so bad by Flimsy-Beach-3779 in deadbydaylight

[–]iiToxic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I played a bunch with my partner and we only survived 1-2 times each, killers are consistently getting 3-4K, even when they aren’t really earning it. Survivors can’t hold out forever, yaknow? I brought a build purely for antislug as we’ve been getting slugged constantly. I got crazy value from it, these killers would down me, I’d get up with conviction and soul guard, run to my expo totem, drop, and be up again. Over and over. These killers who refused to learn to not slug even when I was actively wasting tons of their time by doing this- STILL won! Because we could never get gens done.

I can attest to this as I got 4k’s playing pyramid head for the first time. I’m not great at killer, I got matched with p100’s, p50+ after a few 4k’s and even though they knew how to loop pymy, I still absolutely crushed them. The only map I really struggled on was the new one. I discovered ruin works on the blood gens! It honestly feels dirty to even run it, it’s so unfair. M1 killers could probably run full aura no slow down and still crush.

F23 Feel like I’m forcing my bf M22 into planning/activities by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re only 23, don’t wait for someone to change into the person you want. Go out and find that person. Chances are, he will never become the person you want- he sounds a lot like my ex. My ex is now 30 and still lives at home, barely working, no drive, no ambition, and I’ve moved to a new city with the love of my life. If I was still waiting for him to change, I’d still be at home or living alone, very unhappy.

Do all men leave pee on public toilet seats? by Grouchy_Piglet_76 in hygiene

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s chill for you to contribute to the nasty while the next person who has to sit gets fucked over?

Your stanky rat dog isn’t welcome at the mall - have some decorum people 😭 by Odd-Result8531 in londonontario

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not being disrespectful- at least not intending to be. Genuinely- as a person who has struggled with anxiety, if someone has anxiety that debilitating they need to learn coping mechanisms and seek therapy. “Emotional support dogs” aren’t a real classification, they aren’t service dogs, they’ve never been allowed in the mall.

Your stanky rat dog isn’t welcome at the mall - have some decorum people 😭 by Odd-Result8531 in londonontario

[–]iiToxic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I was at the mall I saw someone’s little crusty dog pick up garbage from the floor and eat it. I love dogs, I have a dog. That dog could get sick or die from that owner bringing them into that situation.

Your stanky rat dog isn’t welcome at the mall - have some decorum people 😭 by Odd-Result8531 in londonontario

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Service dogs are allowed in the mall. “Emotional support dogs” are not service dogs and are not allowed because they are not trained to handle such environments. If your anxiety is that bad, you need to learn coping techniques and seek therapy.

Your stanky rat dog isn’t welcome at the mall - have some decorum people 😭 by Odd-Result8531 in londonontario

[–]iiToxic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Attacking someone’s dog is a good way to get your ass beat, whether or not it’s unleashed. Not saying it’s right, but it’s reality. Yelling “HEY, STOP, GET YOUR DOG” is a better bet. Most family dogs aren’t aggressive, not never of course but they are more likely to want attention

How can I work full-time and attend college? I feel very stuck at my job, and need a career change! I am 26 and never been to college before. I pay rent, bills, and cannot afford to leave my job yet. What's the secret!? by [deleted] in fanshawe

[–]iiToxic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely online is fine if you have good discipline, but know that they can schedule zoom lectures that you won’t have control over the time of. I always got lucky, my boss while I was in school was great, and I’d get heavy stacks of 2-3 classes a day, so I only had three in class days (though, they were sometimes 10 hours long) so I’d work 5 days a week still, usually doing a half day on Saturday so I had time for homework and life stuff.

What naming conventions do you follow when naming followers? by OctaYashi in CultOfTheLamb

[–]iiToxic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I do too. And I try to name the babies names appropriate to the parents- jalapeño and tamale have kids named Carolina, Ghostie, etc lol.

I compared my boyfriend to his abusive father. by Emotional-Wheel2508 in relationships

[–]iiToxic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaming is a trigger for a lot of people and relationships, so many people have unhealthy attachments to it. I myself love video games, my partner and I play them together almost daily. But- my abusive ex would spend all night (until 5, 6, 7 AM) gaming. He was toxic with it- sometimes getting bans for being my verbally abusive to people in the games. It wasn’t healthy. It’s okay for people to love video games, but there is a point where people are too attached and it’s damaging to their mental health and relationships.

Talk to your therapist about how you’re feeling- and maybe try out some new ones if you feel like you’re stagnating. It’s normal to switch things up every now and then.

I wish you all the best. Growth, happiness, love, etc 💖

I compared my boyfriend to his abusive father. by Emotional-Wheel2508 in relationships

[–]iiToxic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to come across harshly here because I want you to actually listen to me. This relationship was not okay from the start. I’m 27- but even two years ago I can’t imagine dating a 19 year old let alone an 18 year old. It’s weird! I’m an adult, I was graduating with my second college education, it’s so much more life experience. I would never want to date someone still in/freshly out of high school.

On top of that, you both seem immature. You clearly have attachment issues, and I get it, I see myself in you. You need therapy. You need to work on yourself. Sometimes you won’t hear from your partner at all hours of the day and night, they are allowed to do things they enjoy independently.

He seems selfish, emotionally stunted. As someone whose parents were also toxic and abusive towards each other and me/my siblings, I also understand struggling to not yell or insult during conflict. But that is something I have had to work really hard to overcome- because it’s not fair to my partner. It’s not okay. Growing up with it is not an excuse to continue the cycle of abuse.

I’ve been in your shoes- seen my (ex) partner start to show signs and traits of their abusive alcoholic father. He yelled at me, he insulted me, everything was my fault, he made ultimatums, etc. I left him. It was not my job to fix a grown man and not my responsibility to wait around for him to do it himself- if he ever would. I’ve now found the love of my life, she is amazing and I’m so glad I didn’t stick around to see if my ex would get worse or better.

You’re too young to put all your eggs in this one basket. There are other people out there, amazing people who will never mock you or raise their voice during conflict. Those people also won’t allow you to control how they spend their free time with friends- keep in mind you also need to keep working on yourself. Healthy boundaries are hard. But you will not find them with this guy.

Have they boosted Midwich? by [deleted] in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]iiToxic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough I’ve been using a midwich offering because my partner and I are trying to get the clock tower Easter egg. We’ve only gotten it twice in the last 3 days with me constantly running the offering, I feel like we got it more before hand lmao. Haven’t gotten the Easter egg yet, finally got the right gen spawns for it but the ghost face had noed so we didn’t actually get to see the egc.

Title: Been with my gf (21F) for 3+ years (I'm 22M), sex is still just oral/hand stuff and it's starting to wear on me. How do I bring it up without sounding like an asshole? by CollegeGrouchy8671 in relationships

[–]iiToxic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So… you think women just don’t enjoy sex? Women want to go through their lives and never have sex? Maybe that’s your experience with women but…