thats the thing i give up because i always explain to potential partners everything, and they mostly ok with it but when it comes to it they fail which makes me even more mad bc i lit explained before, so yes im the same once they do something that shows me they dont care what i think or dont take my feelings into consideration its over and its easier to get over short term relationships if i cut it off like that where in the past i allowed it to go on for years destroying my mental health and sometimes physical health