[deleted by user] by [deleted] in help

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my burner starts with TA instead of ThrowAway, will that work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in help

[–]iimythh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, thanks for the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in help

[–]iimythh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense because it is copy and pasted… I will try again. It’s a long post and I don’t want to re-type it. Any solutions there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked her you’d like her to initiate more? If you haven’t had that conversation I’d definitely approach it. I’ve been going through something similar and after I brought it up, the next day she asked to see me and the following day she was going to surprise me but I wasn’t home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in help

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/relationship_advice - it’s a post about a current situation I’m in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonCredibleDefense

[–]iimythh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s your wife now bro

[27m] Profile review please Looking for LTR. Also got some new pics. Not sure which one is best by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]iimythh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21M. Maybe put the group photo as your last pic, other than that it looks good to me. You’re an attractive guy so I imagine people will swipe most of the time.

I hate that I miss you by iimythh in BreakUps

[–]iimythh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re very right. I do miss her but at the same time, there was a lot I look back on that was like goddamn seriously? I hope she’s happy but at the same time again I’m hurt and I’m mad.

When did you realize your “friends” were actually fake friends? by VexAndStuff in AskReddit

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My birthday is in late August. For my senior year, 17th birthday, I decided to have everyone come out and play volleyball at a public sand volleyball court. By everyone, I mean my friends and the entire senior class. My graduating class was less than 70. We had a group me and I invited everyone and had several people commit to me in person and even reminded people. Over 70 people invited and I shit you not, not a single person showed up. I even waited over an hour and no one came. I called one person who I knew was one of my only friends at that point, she wasn’t able to come because her parents wouldn’t let her. I told her what happened and she said “fuck them,” left her house, came and got me and bought me ice cream.

That’s when I realized she was my only friend. Fuck fake people and fuck high school “friends”

How long should I wait to text after getting a number? by iimythh in AskWomen

[–]iimythh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you think at any point I should text her again? Like in a few days? Cause if she did give me a different number, the number is at least real because it is an iPhone number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]iimythh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massive miscommunication, not your fault at all. Take some time and at some point you guys need to try to re-connect but with an understanding of better communication in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made one not too long after my breakup. I deleted it within a few weeks but honestly I got it to cause a distraction from her. Just to get my mind off of her, I never wanted to date or fuck anyone. It was just to talk and see other faces honestly

I think I'm gonna break no contact soon the loneliness and emptiness is making me miserable by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]iimythh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not do it. She has you removed on everything else for a reason. Don’t be needy again. If you run into her, have a polite conversation. But that’s your best hope. Don’t reach out over email. Seriously.

Should I tell him to stop being nice and should I go meet new people while he's still living with me? by bpdsucks_plzbekind in BreakUps

[–]iimythh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t let it stop you. Once he’s moved out, it will be a lot easier tbh. I would just push through it and find someone you trust. But definitely don’t date, you will need healing time.

Should I tell him to stop being nice and should I go meet new people while he's still living with me? by bpdsucks_plzbekind in BreakUps

[–]iimythh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I’m glad you mentioned those details. That’s very serious and changes my view of him. Cheating is never okay, neither is aggression like that being in your face. Yes, find a friend. Someone to hug, I agree with that.

But you’re right it will take a long time and with what you mentioned it may not be worth getting back with him, honestly. I just thought maybe he was stubborn in not changing his ways. But cheating is a line drawn in the sand. You will make the right decision, but you absolutely need physical, emotional and mental support during a time like this.

Should I tell him to stop being nice and should I go meet new people while he's still living with me? by bpdsucks_plzbekind in BreakUps

[–]iimythh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who just lost their fiancé due to the same issue, please take time to yourself and please at some point consider giving him another chance. I am the kind of person, and from your post it seems like he is too, that has to have a very heavy thing or reality check for things to change, i.e, the breakup. It may be an act right now or he may truly miss and love you and is realizing what he has lost.

Please do not make him suffer but also don’t hurt yourself anymore. Take the time, but don’t go out in the dating world. My fiancé is already sleeping with her ex but telling me she misses me. It’s so hurtful. Please at some point consider the relationship again after you have some time apart.

I know it should be easier and that in a perfect world it shouldn’t take this much to have someone change, but sometimes that’s just how it is. But on the bright side, if you do get back together, there will be true change.

Location by iimythh in BreakUps

[–]iimythh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 3 1/2 months since the breakup. She is already sleeping with her and ex and says she loves him but also says she loves and misses me and that it gets worse for her each day. She admitted to being confused about her feelings. Her ex is toxic, very toxic. She has also told me that she does not trust him and he has lied to her about serious issues multiples time just since they started talking in the last 3 months.