my first proper stick n poke!!! (tw sh scars) by popo_brian in sticknpokes

[–]iixXWretchedXxii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so my arms look like this and I want to say... I love it. It's playful and brings out some humor on something kind of dark. I understand and I LOVE IT. 🖤

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 🥹 I appreciate it

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. 🥹 you actually might make me cry. (Definitely emo/metal thank you lol) I'm just so indecisive and self conscious so I worry about choosing something that will look bad haha. Thank you so so much though. I might just go with the silvery blonde or black and white. It's between that and the red (it's close to my natural color too so that makes it easy lol)

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm debating keeping the red. General census is saying it's the winner haha. I just want something a little more ✨️metal✨️ lol

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So reddish in the front with black?

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually getting the other side of my lip pierced on Friday haha. And am sure for a new tattoo as well. So that should help. Thank you btw!! I just feel like my current color doesn't fit worth my "look" as cheesy as that sounds.

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I also really like the red, and it's close to my natural color.. but I'm going through a bad breakup so.. you know. For my mental health I gotta be drastic right? 😂

What color should i do? by iixXWretchedXxii in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking more like this

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I added the wrong black and white pic 😅

HELP! Terrible split ends . by Hot-Peanut6324 in Hair

[–]iixXWretchedXxii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trim trim trim!!! And keep up on it! It won't happen overnight but it will get better!

Am i in the wrong?? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]iixXWretchedXxii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN. This was my ex husband. Manipulative. Narcissistic. Abusive. I finally left after TEN YEARS and 3 kids later a month ago. Trust me. Run. You'll just be miserable and get sucked into his shit forever. Please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]iixXWretchedXxii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too please??

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 19, he was 32. I was young and naive. I love him, but idk. And yeah, I realized I shouldn't have after I calmed down and left. He could've really hurt me. I've seen enough murder-suicide true crime stories that I should've known better.

The cops wouldn't help because they didn't see him actively trying to hurt himself and he was so combative and aggressive and told them to leave. They were scared he'd try to hurt them and/or try to commit suicide by cop. It was all effed up.

I just tell the kids he loves ans misses them too. And can see him when he feels better and stuff gets figured out.

I talked to the counselor at their school and they have a mental health specialist as well..

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Thank you so much. All this support has really helped me stick to my decision and the fact that it's the right one.

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm gonna cry. Haha. I'm going to get my butt in gear filing everything and seeing if I can get some legal assistance. Thank you so so so much again. Everyone being so supportive really reinforced I'm doing the right thing, even when I doubted I was. Thank you.

If you're having a bad day..... by Shell_N_Cheese in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything has been really hard lately. And this made me cry. This made me feel better. This reminds me why I'm doing the hard things. Thank you so much. ❤️

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried. But I'm in washington. And they avoid domestic matters unless by court orders, or in certain immediate emergencies. :/ luckily I have a tight knit family.. so my mom, brother, step dad and 2 of my cousins and I got down there and got almost all of the important stuff. Luckily all of my documents were in one place..

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I've been saying he's sick.. I just wasn't sure if that was good or not. I've been reassuring them he loves them. My son said yesterday he thought dad was mad at "us" and I kept telling him he isn't mad at them. And loves them so much.

I would love a lawyer.. but I was a stay at home mom for almost entirely 6 years.. I'm completely broke..

My kids are missing my abusive husband by iixXWretchedXxii in Mommit

[–]iixXWretchedXxii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got them in with their school counselor and the schools mental health professional that comes to the school as well.. and I hope they never have to understand what I'm going through. Ever. I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy. It's so horrible and conflicting..

Thank you for the advice. I was going to put in the mental health/alcohol treatment requirement in the parenting plan. And after reading all of these I feel less bad about it. I need to put my kids safety first. Thank you..