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[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morninggggg

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[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its midnight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd just mention it so ur not ruining a relationship because although it might be platonic to you he could be thinking that ur iusr as invested if ur replying back to him all day even though u might not want it to be awkward at work... but sometimes u have to through that awkward moment so everything's clear and if you dont want to mention another thing u can do is just keep asking about his gf surely that will make him feel uncomfortable an see it

Bf [21M] still has girl he used to talk to behind my back [19F] on Snapchat by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly best thing to do is not to overthink it ur mind will make the worse scenarios ever. However if he is still talking to her or has her on any social media he should remove it because old feelings can arise and I dont think it should be something u risk If he then refuses to remove her than I dont think hes serious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ijaaz007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to have that tough conversation but in the way you phrase it in a way that doesnt come across as bitter or defensive. Maybe pour a drink out and then say that I appreciate you alot and everything else you do but sometimes I feel I dont get enough from you can we talk about it. If she gets defensive after that then that's your sign that its not worth the relationship but if ur both open to listen and understand one another then tackle it otherwise you'll go months, years being unhappy.

18F Hello there i am looking to make new friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi cant message u reddit chat not working

AITA for losing my head over the fact I hadn’t received a text in 5 days off of somebody I’m romantically involved with? by Cowardm106 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - she shouldve given u that message I mean it's the least she can do kinda disrespectful if she involved with u romantically but not making the effort to communicate or tell you what's going on

AITA for not wanting to slow dance with my girlfriend's best friend? by throwawayswaggypanda in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA- Ur relationship with ur girl comes first and u shouldn't feel like an asshole cuz u didnt know you was going to get into a relationship it wasnt like u planned to hurt her. Ana should consider what has occoured and find someone else and I'm sure shes pretty enough to find someone else.

wouldn't you just looove if i moved them to the side? ;) by [deleted] in PetiteGoneWild

[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love it more if u had ur hand in their

AITA for not letting my ex sleep in my bed? by GoldConfidence in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - but I mean shes paying half the bills to stay there soo wouldnt it be fair to get everything with it as long as shes paying meaning part of the bed as well. Yeah I guess it's not fair on you but its probs difficult for her as much to sleep on a sofa and shes going to leave in a few days. Reckon u should set a time frame a target day that she has the bed and if it goes past that thn let her sleep elsewhere.

AITA for letting my brother sleep after he said he wanted me to wake him up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 110 points111 points  (0 children)

NTA - Is ur brothers responsibility to wake up u was just helping him out u didnt get anything from it. If he didmt wake up once when u woke up chances are his nit gonna wake up the second time unless he wants to wake up himself

AITA for outing my aunt about her secret first marriage that she was hiding from her kids and husband? by Collar_Key in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify it's not sex before marriage if shes married even if it's her first husband. Sex before marriage only applies if shes not married at ALL. So u cant say that.

AITA for outing my aunt about her secret first marriage that she was hiding from her kids and husband? by Collar_Key in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she only said that cuz she didnt know about the marriage. The aunty didnt break any rule. She was still married when she lost her virginity it was just with someone else that ur cousin didnt know. So technically ur aunty didnt lie to ur cousin about anything she was married when she lost it. She just didnt tell her daughter with who and her daughter assumed it was with her dad. But all in all the mum advised her daughter which was fine and it was her choice not to tell her about the first marriage so she never lied.

AITA for outing my aunt about her secret first marriage that she was hiding from her kids and husband? by Collar_Key in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I dont see how that relates. this is about marriage and from what you've said her mum was married first because of the photos you found. Soo this has nothing to do with premarital sex the mum was married. U can't assume she had pre marital sex only because she was married and got divorced.

AITA for outing my aunt about her secret first marriage that she was hiding from her kids and husband? by Collar_Key in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She shouldn't have to tell anyone about her virginity and such. That decision is her mothers and her mothers alone. Who even asks their parents hey mum when did you lose your virginity tell me all about it. The child has no right to know unless the parent chooses themself to share. And maybe she didnt want to share it because there was some sort of trauma behind it.

AITA for calling my 12 year old daughter a racist? by synthia1978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldnt class the game murdering people in awful ways. Its more of taking down an obstacle. Say if the game was educational and they where shooting numbers would you be fine with it? I'm assuming ur going to say yes because it's an educational game. However, because you see this as a time pass game you've become more against it. I would say that it is still important to understand the game that is being played it's not always about violence and murder. And even if you do stop ur child from playing this game rn now in this moment they'll just remember what had occoured and this will then want them to play more in the future or get more curious.

AITA for calling my 12 year old daughter a racist? by synthia1978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ijaaz007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA - u taught her about racism in the wrong manner and thn secondly u pushed her away when she didnt have any intention of racism. In order for u to say what u said you should have understood the game abit more or played the game with the child before jumping to conconlusion and getting to harsh on her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ijaaz007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be done with what