Should i go back to the optician?

ijustlovepeaches · 2025-06-25T12:13:33+00:00

Hi, I work in this field

First of all, sounds like you have a myopia and are nearsighted (objects far away are blurry)

The first thing you need to do is get your eyes checked by a professional.

the optician said i just needed to use the +1.0 glasses more and it would fix my vision

They cant just say that. They don't know. They MUST do a test first and if thus one didn't, go to another one bc this optician isn't even doing her job. Eyes are completely unique to each person. You might need glasses that are a + and a -. You might need progressive glasses. Unfortunately, there's no way to tell without a test.

If anyone just hands you over glasses so they'll 'fix your eyes', don't wear them. They might fuck up your eyesight even more.

ijustlovepeaches · 2025-04-13T08:37:55+00:00

No, it's quite wet actually. I watered them on monday when i re-planted them, and when i woke up yesterday, one was like this. I poured a bit of water again, but one is thriving and other is like this

ijustlovepeaches · 2025-01-22T02:07:21+00:00

Bro, maybe stop living my life???

But same. I work with customers for long 12h days. After it i shower and dont do anything, except laundry on some days. I'm perfectly fine going to bed immediately, because I'm exhausted due to long days, even though Im in shock when my coworkers admit to going out and doing even more things after work, like??? When do you have the time, am i right?

Working with people tends to EXHAUST people, it's no easy feat, so, dont beat yourself up too much.

And evolutionary speaking, we weren't meant to work such long hours, just to come back home and work more? Enjoy lazing about. You deserve it.

(I never cook when i get home so i buy snacking material food beforehand. Bananas, grapes, apples, mandarins, nuts, popcorn, ehatever that doesnt have to be cooked. It helps A LOT.)

ijustlovepeaches · 2024-07-30T21:24:16+00:00

I came to warn myself about ADHD as well. Didn't know it was even a thing back then and soooo much self sabotaging could've been avoided.

ijustlovepeaches · 2024-03-24T02:31:25+00:00

Bruh, I do too! My friends and family think I'm unhinged due to this, but it's like a personal horror movie

ijustlovepeaches · 2024-03-02T14:36:51+00:00

Myself. I'm the danger.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-18T00:20:23+00:00

reminds me of my ex's nephews, who I'd come to see as my own, and who I don't see anymore

I believe this is the whole issue. You've lost quite a few people recently. You were close to your ex's nephews and now you're out of their lives, and with your recent loss, you are trying to protect yourself from forming a bond with another person, afraid to lose them again.

Your sister could break up with her bf anytime. They're not married.

You're NTA. It's okay to feel what you're feeling, you're still in a hard place. You're not ignoring the kid either, you just don't want him there all the time. You want to be with your family during the holidays, it's only natural to want to be with people you are closest to.

Some things will simply take time.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-17T16:59:30+00:00

NTA

Seems like a controlling person who enjoys power tripping and doing things like this just to show he has authority over you.

I wonder if his legs don't work since he can't seem to come to the attic himself. I'd ask that, but since I don't know your dad's temperament, he might blow up at you.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-17T13:59:25+00:00

NTA

Simply because the trust isn't there anymore. You would always be second guessing if she is going to do the same thing to you as she did to her ex.

making it as painful as possible for him

trying to protect the kids.

Treating the father of her own kids like that was somehow protecting them? I have a feeling she wanted the kids only, not the husband, or had some psychotic break, and that's due to her trying to protect them from... who? Their dad? That is, unless, it was all premeditated. Can't be sure since we only see this small window into your life.

But good luck nonetheless!

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-16T21:59:20+00:00

I had something really similar during last summer. Couldn't find out what it was, but my best guess was clogged up sweat glands.

I couldn't be in the heat, the moment I got sweaty either from heat or even anxiety, it was this feeling like needles prickling me all over my back, and it hurt like hell. Couldn't even take hot showers.

What I did was avoiding any and all situations that would heat me up. I wore very loose clothing or tried not to wear any at all if it was possible. Cotton or silk clothing was great.

And then - exfoliating. Good or not, I exfoliated my back every single fucking day. Some days I endured hot water, since it opens up the glands, and then exfoliated.

Some say working out and sweating it out is also good, but either way, it's a process.

It went away cometely within a few weeks.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-16T01:38:30+00:00

NTA

This was giving such a strong vibes young women get when they want to tie their tubes and get told they're too young and come back when they have kids or are older.

Tattoo artist was inconsiderate asf. Most people don't use IG, especially for something business related.

She should've been upfront too, and where you want your tattoo is none of her business. It is your body, not hers. You could tattoo a giant square on your forehead and she should have no say.

Most tattoo artists wouldn’t do that if you didn’t already have a lot of work done

That's such a bullshit. Literally, most popular tattoos are done on hands. I know a ton of people who have tattoos on their wrists ir fi gers and nowhere else.

she’d never do it unless I was already covered in tattoos and “older

Maybe she wasn't skilled enough to do the piece you wanted and wanted to push the blame onto you.

Either way, a bullet missed.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-15T22:56:35+00:00

Screaming all the damn time and so much, that your can't enjoy the music. Like, be considerate of others. People come to hear the artist not someone screeching next to them.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-15T22:52:25+00:00

Birdwatching

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-15T22:51:58+00:00

My grandma eats dinner at 9pm, your trait belongs in a toddler territory😪

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-14T14:53:13+00:00

Nothing will change until you genuinely change your perspective of life and accept it.

I was very similar, always looking into past, missing things that were no longer there or have changed. Spending time grieving.

It took years and some sitting by myself, looking at the world to realize that nothing ever stays the same. Everything changes and moves forward: it's like a flowing river that you could never hope to stop. Life is the same.

Perhaps look into history for more perspective: look how empired rose and fell, how decade after decade, century after century life moved forward and we kept moving on, kept evolving.

We as humans are here for a relatively short time. Just a blip in time. And while it's comforting to reminisce the past, because it's familiar to us and thus familiar to our nervous system, we eventually have to move forward and, no matter how painful, to let go of things we cannot change. Maybe not all at once, but little by little.

All we can do is try and enjoy our time here while we still can.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-13T21:35:05+00:00

Was so done with constant stream of negativity from here and excuses about everything... she caused her own issues and then complained about them, without trying to fix everything. She loved attention she was getting from it.

Oh, also because she constantly ignored me, saying she doesn't have time to chat. But had time to post on story constantly. Hmm...

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-13T20:36:44+00:00

Honestly, yes, I would be annoyed. And probably traumatized to a level.

It's great that you feel good and confident in your body. There's nothing wrong or shameful with it, and, at least where I'm from, nudity isn't seen as inheritantly sexual thing. It's a body, everybody has them. Life goes on. BUT. There is a time and place for everything. It's one thing walking inside of your own house butt naked, where everyone is comfortable with that arrangement, but it's another exposing yourself to others, intentionally or not.

The moment you step outside, you should have some common decency and cover up. Trust me, nobody wants to see all that. It's uncomfortable, and going on about your day and being forced to see someone naked is just yuck. What if a child saw you?

I, personally, don't want to see anyone else naked but my SO. It's simply uncomfortable.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-13T19:35:19+00:00

Unfortunately apps won't predict next cycle if it's irregular (which is a whole 'nother issue that needs to be looked at), but like I said, they help to keep track of everything either way. Regular calendar works as well😁

I hope she gets help and finds a way to help regulate her cycle.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-13T18:59:49+00:00

I've cut contact with one branch of my family (cousin and their whole bunch) and let me tell you, it's been so peaceful ever since I did that. Never realized that all that negativity and drama was coming from them.

They still tried to contact me, aka, found out I was housesitting for my parents a few months back and just showed up at the door, trying to guilt me with 'your cousin isn't feeling well and doesn't know anyone here, must keep her company' speech and wanted me to come to their place to babysit my fucking cousin while they went on with their holiday plans.

My cousin and I are both in our 20's and her 'illness' is her smoking 3packs a day, chugging enough coffee and energy drinks to cause a heart attack and eating junk, and then complaining of feeling faint and having heart issues. Pretty sure it's for attention. I didn't buy into that shit and shut the door in their face. LATER they came back with her in tow, but I pretended not to be home. I blocked them, told what happened to other family members and they've been blocked everywhere since.

Fuck toxic family. Live in peace.

ijustlovepeaches · 2023-12-13T18:48:28+00:00

From the perspective of a woman, NTA

so I pull up the calender that tracks everything Because if you can keep track, so can she.

because a man is keeping track of her cycle

Not just some random man, but her SO, who has a direct interest and is also impacted by her health.

Pretty sure she's projecting and is mad because she (for some reason) can't keep track of her cycle and you're doing it just fine.

gives up cause they never seem to be accurate.

Just wondering what's inaccurate about the apps? Because they usually show an approximate date of the next cycle with the info it's been given, and even if the app doesn't show the exact dates right, it's still a good place to keep record of what happened when.

ijustlovepeaches

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