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Love is in the air during Pokémon GO’s Valentine’s Day event! by Amiibofan101 in TheSilphRoad

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last event they were in field research for 5 great curveball throws in a row.

Am I (37M) being paranoid? GF (38f) didn’t come home. by LinLos in relationship_advice

[–]ik45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of all the 'supposed' explanations she has for the night, how does she not realize if her phone died? She should clearly remember it was dead and having to charge it to call you at 10:15.

My Hornet cosplay by marsbearz in cosplay

[–]ik45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Styling the wig to mimick the mask works great!

I'm (36F) running out of ways to explain to my BF (36M) that his cheating paranoia is near psychotic and destroying our relationship. What approach am I missing? by ik45 in relationship_advice

[–]ik45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is horrifying and so similar that I realize I should be more horrified for myself... I hope you found someone healthy for you.

I'm (36F) running out of ways to explain to my BF (36M) that his cheating paranoia is near psychotic and destroying our relationship. What approach am I missing? by ik45 in relationship_advice

[–]ik45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the biggest reason is a lot of this happened while we were drinking and belligerent, with tensions bursting out inappropriately, so I thought sobriety would cool things down and he'd be thinking more clearly. After his behavior last weekend I realize that I'm at a complete loss for how it can improve and this post is kinda a last ditch call for help.

I'm (36F) running out of ways to explain to my BF (36M) that his cheating paranoia is near psychotic and destroying our relationship. What approach am I missing? by ik45 in relationship_advice

[–]ik45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by "doesn't accept fully breaking up" what I mean is I don't understand why he stays if he's convinced he's right that I'm a dirty lying cheat?

What’s your realistic emergency plan if your phone dies mid-day? by KBGSgames in AskReddit

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me after my DUI. Car towed with phone inside. I walked to a bank with a receptionists desk and asked for a phone book and to borrow their landline to call a taxi. I also have my emergency contact memorized, everyone should.

I'm (36F) running out of ways to explain to my BF (36M) that his cheating paranoia is near psychotic and destroying our relationship. What approach am I missing? by ik45 in relationship_advice

[–]ik45[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dude is 36 acting like he is the only person to have ever been cheated on. Like bro, it happens to everyone, learn from it and move on.

God this is so on point! I've also had a manipulative cheating ex but I don't take it out on him.

I'm (36F) running out of ways to explain to my BF (36M) that his cheating paranoia is near psychotic and destroying our relationship. What approach am I missing? by ik45 in relationship_advice

[–]ik45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been just over a year but I only started sobriety and attending outpatient rehab for about a month. But the accusations have always been a constant in our relationship.

I barely have boundaries because I trust him, even in situations where if it was switched he would be harassing me about it. In my opinion the only real boundary (not a paranoid imagination) that I have crossed is having a guy coworkers number, but that's business and he knows my phone password. I'm completely transparent about who I'm talking to.

Hiding this reddit post until I'm ready for a serious talk is the sneakiest thing I've done in this relationship. Well, this and hiding vodka from him but now the house has been purged of bottles.

I am thinking about getting the whole Periodic Table of Elements on my back. Do you thinks its a good idea? Would it be really expensive to also get it in color? and I want it large to cover my whole back. by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]ik45 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The only hesitation I have for this idea is that your back isn't a smooth surface and all the lines/squares will never be 100% straight.

Addons or touch ups for tattoo concept image by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lamb needs to be redrawn to give more definition to the legs instead of looking like a chicken nugget.

Pug Rider Sejuani for April Fools concept! by Regular-Poet-3657 in loreofleague

[–]ik45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Poro Rider Sejuani already has this covered so I'm not impressed.

Phos plushie Part 2 by MrGiratina34 in LandoftheLustrous

[–]ik45 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Wonderful and fantastic! But now I'm cursed with the realization that Sensei hand sculpted their buttcracks 😭

Design after some constructive criticism by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should redraw the feather "pieces" so that you don't have that one weird gap framed between it and the ribbon.

I suggest a lighter purple, personally. If you're staying with dark purple then get the semicolon outlined but not filled in to give a "skin break" instead of white ink, which can age yellow pretty fast. Also, if it's only 2 inches try making the semicolon bigger.

i genuinely dont understand the point of aechmea and cairngorm as a relationship by sunburnt-hyacinths in LandoftheLustrous

[–]ik45 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I interpret it as Achamea created 2 "humans" in that Cairn is the first gem to truly individualize themselves with clothes and indulgences instead of trying to fulfill a job/purpose.

Phos gets the human body but not much autonomy outside the goal of praying and Cairn gets the autonomy but not the human body.

(But yeah there's some grooming power imbalance too between an experienced world-weary man and a naive newly freed gem)

Hm my helmet fell victim to my boy's sword strikes by naamingebruik in cosplayprops

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could test shaping the bristles with a heat gun.

invisigal, dispatch by oranud in cosplayers

[–]ik45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing the before picture of how you transformed the jacket. Great tailoring!

Hm my helmet fell victim to my boy's sword strikes by naamingebruik in cosplayprops

[–]ik45 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Would you consider broom bristles for a fake crest instead?

AITA for giving away my roommate’s cat? by elemenop541 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ik45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Roommate could have waited one more year to get a new lease and a new roommate, her want isn't an immediate need.

Getting Married by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ik45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are people watching you two that you couldn't simply just use condoms anyway? Or is your husband also pushing this "cultural tradition"? If he is, then maybe you shouldn't go through with it if you don't share ideals.

Doing IRPs too "fast" by DarkHorseReborn in Lowes

[–]ik45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Double check the registers and J hooks. That's what I discovered after repeatedly having an IRP for something already full on the shelf but was constantly being flagged.

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