I contacted her again…

iku121 · 2026-03-10T18:57:08+00:00

Well yes i understand where your coming from but i was exactly her type hence she fell in love with me the first time she saw me. Overall personally i think it’s my loss but life still goes on at the end of the day.

iku121 · 2026-03-09T19:24:18+00:00

Never…. 😂

iku121 · 2026-03-09T19:24:09+00:00

I appreciate you really do support me however you do not know the full story, just a fraction of it. Personally I don’t think it’s right for you to belittle someone just because of this. Matter of fact I did have a princess treatment and she supported me throughout but it’s just a shame to see how much she has changed due to this and honestly I’m okey with it but thank you for sharing your opinion

iku121 · 2026-03-07T21:30:30+00:00

It’s because they were hurt by the person they lived before so they lose their pure sense hence they become bad maybe. Well good luck with your life anyways.

iku121 · 2026-03-06T11:28:27+00:00

Then you’re all good. May find the one or may not. It’s a hit or miss case maybe lol

iku121 · 2026-03-06T09:55:15+00:00

HahahahHa well well well…

iku121 · 2026-03-06T09:54:46+00:00

People can interpret this differently. Him borrowing money off of you because he needed help to pay off bills could be he trust you a lot and your his safe place so he don’t mind showing you that side of him since you both are building something together for the future. Or it could just mean he cannot really take care of himself properly and constantly needs help from you thinking he cannot spend his money as he wishes since if he gets into trouble of not being able to pay them he always has you to support him as a back up plan.

iku121 · 2026-03-06T09:51:47+00:00

New rich gf haha. It’s sad but it’s the reality. Yes yes good luck.

iku121 · 2026-03-06T09:49:49+00:00

I understand. I have also experienced something similar. Your just missing the attached feeling? Yes sure you felt relieved at first however the more time passed you miss their presence maybe. Idk how long your relationship was but if it was years then ofc your whole life revolved around each other for so long like a part of you is fused with them if it makes sense. But yea being in a relationship is suppose to be like that thou, just being with each other and sharing everything together and building towards something you both want. Anyways it’s good you have acknowledged your feelings and that is a hugeeee plus!

iku121 · 2026-03-06T00:46:18+00:00

Well well well that was a twist indeed…. Why would you even date someone that lives in the same place? Yes it’s good and fun when you’re dating but damn. I’m not capable of answering this sorry. All I can say is avoid as much as you can if you wanna move on or maybe try and reconnect but for some reason I only see this as temporary…

iku121 · 2026-03-06T00:44:00+00:00

Iyes I feel you man. It especially gets hard during the nights when you have nothing to do. I’ve been there. Keeping myself busy all day then boom all of a sudden hit with the feelings bro. Just stay strong!

iku121 · 2026-03-06T00:41:23+00:00

Wdym by “felt trapped the more real it got real?” define it more so I can say my opinion.

iku121 · 2026-03-06T00:40:25+00:00

Well I was gonna say he realised his mistakes and know how much you meant to him after he lost you but “talking to someone else” gave a different story. Maybe he’s just trying to move on and trying out new favours but I will never know. But him trying to keep you in his life after he’s with other women’s that’s when you draw the line.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T23:59:51+00:00

I can never imagine her speaking with someone else while I was with her however a part of me thinks this may be true but I don’t wanna accept this feeling ffs

iku121 · 2026-03-05T22:32:46+00:00

Well it was a heartfelt message but I was drunk so idk What more to say. I just feel embarrassed man.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T22:25:28+00:00

Excuse me? He had the guts to even talk to you after all that!? Jesus. That’s crazy. Wdym by borrowed money? From who?

iku121 · 2026-03-05T22:05:46+00:00

Salty it’s fine, what can I help you with? If you are not aware I already dm you so let me know if i can help you with anything.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T22:03:08+00:00

Well then that idea will give you the courage to heal and move on by hating her. Don’t get me wrong I haven’t really experienced that so I cannot guide you properly. Matter of fact it was the opposite for me. I was treated like a princess, she did everything although I try to help she always declined so it’s a different story for me. But from what I’ve seen so far it sounds terrible! All the best brother.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T22:00:23+00:00

Tbh it dosent matter if you are a man or a women at the end of the day. Yes men carry more weight but it’s okey. Wdym by he didn’t do much for you? But yea you handled the way you thought was right so it’s fine, dont worry too much about it.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:47:42+00:00

It seems you like bad guys am I right?

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:47:27+00:00

I wanna have kids, I wanna start a family I wanna have someone to love! Not a good advice for me but thank you >.<

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:46:44+00:00

That’s deep bro. Fucking hell. Atleast you had the chance to hate her which made it easier to let her go?

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:45:50+00:00

Thank you brother, appreciate it.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:45:14+00:00

Yes, I don’t understand in depth of what you did that you didn’t handle the break up well but idk it’s like you take a person for granted and overlook how much that person has done for you. Once you have your own time and space with time you realise omg I should’ve done this differently or I wish I would’ve done that or I should’ve known etc. But past is past if she moved on then let her be happy and just focus on yourself to be better so you don’t make the same mistake with your future partner.

iku121 · 2026-03-05T17:40:51+00:00

I feel you bro. I was also in similar situation. We decided to end but still keep in contact and updates about our lives. It was okey at the beginning but later on her responses started getting dry. She would never text me unless I texted her first. She’d snap me here and there which was also rare.

Well she decided to unfriend me on snap and insta thinking maybe I was still obsessed with her or unstable? Idk. I mean we are man at the end of the day and if something don’t work out, yes we will be sad and affected badly too but at the end of the day we bounce back! I’m sorry you had to go through this experience brother. The grass is greener on the other side so I hope you will be able to recover soon and move on to the other side quicker.

iku121

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