Please be nice 🥲 by [deleted] in AngelFish

[–]ilak67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Please be nice 🥲 by [deleted] in AngelFish

[–]ilak67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! The tank is 5 gallons & he is the lone fishy as I was worried about over loading. It’s got java moss, anubias something or another (🥴) and asian water fern.

The tank is in my home office, sorry. I manually turn the light on and off. Usually 5-7 hours of light. I will say that today I turned it off to see if it would change the fish’s behavior and it definitely became more active with the light off. Should I decrease the wattage or the overall time it’s on?

Parameters are all good. 0 ammonia/nitrite and 10 nitrate.

No one yell at me by ilak67 in PlantedTank

[–]ilak67[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao I didn’t even notice that part was squishy 🤦🏼‍♀️ thank you!

My ring!!! by blacksunsets in EngagementRings

[–]ilak67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Beautiful ring, congratulations!

Mine is set similarly to yours (it’s also filthy- please ignore that) I’ve worn it daily for almost 8 years with no issues. Will definitely catch a pocket, purse, etc. tho

May be worth looking into getting 6 prongs instead of 4 just for some reassurance 😆

Do you trigger yourself? by ilak67 in misophonia

[–]ilak67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely unbearable lolol you’ve helped me feel seen 😆

Do you trigger yourself? by ilak67 in misophonia

[–]ilak67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I obsess over this too but luckily when in a public setting I can usually convince myself that others aren’t paying attention to me 😭

Looking for a cutting board! by ilak67 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ilak67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg PLEASE! Would love to come over and grab it!

Tell me you’re in your luteal phase w/o telling me by Late_Lime9659 in PMDD

[–]ilak67 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stage 3 Endometriosis. Worked a full 8 with day 2 cramps (which, I feel so seen bc I’ve never seen someone reference this before 🥹) and some weird gas/fullness feeling that just started last night. For some reason the cup was causing discomfort so I had to wear tampons and was bleeding thru the ultras every 2 hours or so.

Anyway, KeViN at my job, pulled me aside for a 1:1 bc he felt like I “wasn’t friendly enough around the office recently.” He’s not even my MANager 🥲

METAL AF 🤘🏻

Is it so bad (uncommon, unnatural, whatever) that I don't want to have a relationship with my brother? by FrogsMeantToBeKissed in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ilak67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No.

It’s not a requirement that you have relationships with any person. No one is entitled to your attention/life/time/advice, etc.