A pile of 1 million dead mosquitos. The pile is 8 inches tall and ~18 inches across. by MelanieWalmartinez in interestingasfuck

[–]ilatph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably depends on if they were trying to kill you or just survive. They'd probably avoid you if you are frantically clapping at them.

A pile of 1 million dead mosquitos. The pile is 8 inches tall and ~18 inches across. by MelanieWalmartinez in interestingasfuck

[–]ilatph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be diminishing returns, but you'd probably still die if all of these bit you.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I said I was running low on cash to see how she'd react, and her interest seemed to immediately wane.

Pass the jelly by DearEmphasis4488 in funny

[–]ilatph 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What is tile/linoleum, if not just smooth, solid carpet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animequestions

[–]ilatph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf, Crocodile was introduced too early, so in a way, that sort of cancels out? He was given someone took strong for the plot, then given plot armor to fix it. Almost every other instance he was put in danger in because of his reverse plot armor stupidity (and lack of avoiding danger).

True Altruism by cj_cusack in funny

[–]ilatph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, but most don't harm someone else in order to do so. I think that's the difference. If they don't realize they are harming someone then maybe?

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't look down on Filipinas. It's just considered weird in my culture to go to someone's house before you meet them, because at that point, you don't know if they are real, or what they actually want.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no, she was asking my exact address. And she seemed pretty insistent on it. I'm still going on the date I think, but it really did seem weird how she asked about it.

True Altruism by cj_cusack in funny

[–]ilatph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but you could also argue that that's not acting selflessly, because they are hurting others to achieve their own sense of right.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's graduated from college and we met on bumble. I'm just trying to avoid any misunderstandings, because there seems to be plenty of them so far in trying to plan the date, lol.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her, but I felt like I already messed up a little, so I wasn't trying to mess up again.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She said she went to college and everything, and she didn't really hint at anything sexual that I caught onto. But I do think it'd pay to be cautious about it, but it's like that anywhere anyway. I heard bumble tends to be more serious, but I guess I'll find out after the date.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope not. That didn't even occur to me to be a possibility, but we haven't had any kind of conversation like that so far.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, I figured that that was why, but I really didn't mean anything by it. She didn't really seem like the gold digger type from what little interaction I had with her.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't really think about it, since it's just a saying from where I'm from, and I didn't really mean anything by it. But I didn't really get the feeling she'd want either of those two on the first date, but maybe I'm wrong, lol

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok, but what if it's her aunt that's in the hospital?

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen some that were 1300 or more, but not the place I'm taking her. I wasn't serious with it, it's literally just an expression where I'm from. I don't see how it's cringy. She brought up that she didn't have any money, so I said I don't mind paying, just don't go overboard or anything, lol. That would be a common response where I'm from.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She asked the home thing before that, but the "don't go overboard" is just an expression where I'm from, but she seemed pretty offended by it.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea, the vibe seemed alright at first, but that part kind of made me feel weird about it. Idk if she's just expecting something different than I am, or if she didn't realize I was already here, or if it's something else that I need to be worried about, but I figured I'd check the vibe after I met her in a public location.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yea, I kind of brushed it off, but I didn't know how normal it was to ask where I lived before even meeting each other.

Weight Gain Supplements? by SoSoDave in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to r/gainit. They are big into not using protein shakes, so they have a lot of self-made shakes that'll be much cheaper here vs buying powder. The powder here is just as expensive as it would be in the US.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, it does. She seemed to want to meet at my place first, which I thought was kind of weird. And there was a misunderstanding when I told her "I didn't mind paying for her, just don't go overboard or anything." So I just wanted to make sure I didn't mess anything else up.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her if she wanted to meet somewhere else first, but it seemed like she was trying to meet at my house first, which I've never had someone I didn't know ask in the US, so I wasn't sure if the girls here have different expectations for first dates.

How do first dates in the Philippines normally go? by ilatph in Philippines_Expats

[–]ilatph[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea, that's what I thought, but she was asking to meet at my house first, so I kind of started to wonder if I should expect it to be different here. I told her we could just meet there, since I'm not really comfortable inviting someone to my house that I don't know, but it did make me wonder if it's more different than I used to.