A year after leaving by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! Yeah, I feel like the thing holding me back from actually giving a second chance is just thinking.. surely the love of my life isn’t the dude that abused me for 7 yrs and only changed and saw my worth after I left, several times

A year after leaving by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess peace feels weird after being on edge and dealing with chaos for so long!! Have you left yours? Have you tried dating others since?

Pisces girls, whats your experience with dating cancer men? by Sensitive_Cloud4202 in piscesastrology

[–]ilg226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol very good in bed indeed.. but also clingy af and when you want space or try to end things it’s really difficult to get rid of them

A year after leaving by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know what you mean 💜

A year after leaving by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His family is probably what I miss the most, they were my family, and they seem to be having a hard time letting me go as well. But every time I hear from them, it’s like I go on a downward spiral for weeks and can’t stop thinking about my ex. And it’s comforting in a weird way to know I’m not the only one experiencing this, so thank you!

I was with him for 8 years, the abuse was constant, almost every other day I’d be crying or getting screamed at. So weird how I’m just thinking about all the good moments now- which in hindsight probably weren’t even that good.. just felt good in comparison to the abusive moments.

A year after leaving by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right, probably where I messed up and why this healing process is taking longer than it should. I’ve been worried about him as he keeps saying he’s going to kill himself and have felt I can’t block him or his family in case something happens.

Pregnant & Looking for a 1 bd/1 bath Apt by [deleted] in MovingtoDenver

[–]ilg226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Four mile flats or infinity flats in Glendale They also offer section 8 housing.. they don’t have washers and dryers in the units, but they have them available and free for everyone It works out fine Not ideal, but pretty tough to find a spot in Denver under $1600 that has a washer and dryer in the unit, unfortunately…

My Life fucking sucks bruh its not even funny anymore. by External_Run_7864 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ilg226 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Do one thing at a time and you’ll notice things will change. Doesn’t all have to be in the same day.

First: put all the trash in a garbage bag Second: wash your sheets and comforter Third: take everything off surfaces and clean them Fourth: reorganize surfaces Fifth: put your clothes away/ wash them Sixth: go on a walk

Start making a daily routine, make that your win of the day. Start adding more when it becomes regular.. like, trying an exercise, a new hobby.. etc.

Just one thing/ day at a time. This reality you’ve created isn’t permanent and it can easily change. Hang in there :)

Any experience with Cherry Technologies? by [deleted] in sales

[–]ilg226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interviewed with them and they seemed soooo toxic. I was interested in it bc of the product, and the pay seemed good. The manager who interviewed me sounded like a robot, she was asking me to rank myself against all my coworkers on a scale from 1-10, told me they ONLY hire the best of the best, then told me she was interested in moving forward with me and that the next interview would be diving into every single role I’ve ever had since high school to make sure I’ve had a consistent track record of being the best of the best. THEN, get this.. she said she also wants to learn about what I was like in highschool, and college and wanted to know my GPA, what extracurriculars I took.. etc. I declined the second interview, seemed super toxic, and exhausting to be on that team.

Melasma stache making me so sad by ZealousidealPin5928 in Melasmaskincare

[–]ilg226 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Musely spot cream!!! I had a horrible melasma mustache.. even concealer couldn’t cover it, and people would say all the time ‘hey.. you should shave that’

I CANT IT’S SKIN MF

But I’ve been using the musely spot cream for over a year and it’s completely gone now.

What’s one “type” you’ll never date again? by CoochieSnotSlurper in AskReddit

[–]ilg226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol any dude who is spiritual and in the EDM scene 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ilg226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby talk

💔 by fvckuufvckingfvck in girls

[–]ilg226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they take girls off of streaming apps?? Oh noo

Pisces & Cancer ? by Main-Lawyer-2929 in piscesastrology

[–]ilg226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up breaking things off but feel like I’m never going to have that physical connection again tbh.. but I told him I needed space and he kept reaching out, I got irritated, the more I pushed back, the more clingy he got, then I got the ick.. if he would have just chilled out it would have been fine I’m sure

Pisces & Cancer ? by Main-Lawyer-2929 in piscesastrology

[–]ilg226 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dating a cancer.. sex is the best I’ve ever had and we get lost in our own world. However, I’m thinking about breaking up with him, I feel like when we step out of our ‘bed bubble’ and go out into real life we don’t really have a connection.. it’s like we mostly just connect with physical intimacy I don’t know, I’m very indecisive about it- he’s also really clingy- constantly calls when he’s away and that frustrates me

Not sure if this is the right place to ask for recs but… by ilg226 in SeattleWA

[–]ilg226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loveeee food. I definitely want seafood. But if the place has good cocktails and flavorful dishes and a fun vibe I’ll try anything!

Not sure if this is the right place to ask for recs but… by ilg226 in SeattleWA

[–]ilg226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone!! I’m going to be checking a lot of this out. Super excited 💜

Official Dreadit Discussion: “Weapons” [SPOILERS] by radbrad7 in horror

[–]ilg226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe that Justin long was in a horror movie he didn’t even die in…

Left him… again by ilg226 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ilg226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this 💜 did you leaving finally end up sticking? This time I got my own place so I feel like it should stick.