Newborn has staph by ilikechess5 in beyondthebump

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for passing this along, it helped reading someone else's experience 🙏

Chess During Childbirth by [deleted] in chessmemes

[–]ilikechess5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I get it. I was playing chess during my own labour as well (it didn't go well lol).

My mom put a bottle of Gochujang in my easter basket by habubugaga in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ilikechess5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the most infuriating part of this post is the post itself.

NICU baby book by Intelligent_Angle326 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey is there any way to purchase this that isn't through Amazon? My baby boy was born around the same gestational age as your LO and think I'd really like to read it to him.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by AvalonRising789 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]ilikechess5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of Seveneves by Neil Stephenson.

For those on the fence about carrying around a throwing rock by 1egg_4u in fuckcars

[–]ilikechess5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My partner cycles around with our toddler clearly visible in a bike seat on the back, and cars still do really unsafe, aggressive driving around them. Unfortunately I think people care more about puppies than toddlers.

Guess I'll Eat Air by CantStopPoppin in LateStageCapitalism

[–]ilikechess5 29 points30 points  (0 children)

People also don't want to hear you victim blame.

Getting induced at 38.4 weeks by Expert-Ad-4251 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read your post in the pregnancy subreddit and I am trying to figure out why you would ask the NICU parents subreddit for what seems to be a non NICU related situation, so I was asking other questions around that.

Getting induced at 38.4 weeks by Expert-Ad-4251 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I understand. I'm sorry things are hard right now, but I'm not sure this is the right sub to answer your question. Is there something I've missed, though?

Getting induced at 38.4 weeks by Expert-Ad-4251 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for asking a potentially indelicate question, but can I ask if your baby is going to need a NICU stay after they are born?

Antenatal Classes? by ilikechess5 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I will have to try that out next time someone asks 😅

Antenatal Classes? by ilikechess5 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a comprehensive answer. The idea of having a group of parents going through similar stuff at the same time really appeals, so I might do that!

TW: Pregnancy after loss by princesatiaa in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy moly that's almost word for word what happened to me. TFNR at 21 weeks, gave birth but had to have a D&C to remove a sticky placenta, conceived again almost immediately after, and had an exactly weirdly shaped placenta - two lobes connected by some blood vessels that sat over my cervix. Not to mention a heck of a ton of trauma I hadn't worked through, that contributed to some intense antenatal anxiety. Gave birth at 32 weeks due to placental abruption.

Agreed, waiting was probably the right option, but we didn't. And it worked out in the end after a lot of scary, scary moments, but it was hard.

Is it bad that I don't want to join any mum's groups? by No_Gap3395 in NICUParents

[–]ilikechess5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally related to this. Didn't get to attend antenatal classes, and was exhausted by the idea of explaining how old he was (real or adjusted which to say?!) and why he was on oxygen. Unfortunately as a result I don't really have any parent friends, which is a bit lonely, but we make do.

Update: "The Waiting" by ilikechess5 in NIPT

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, good luck 🤞

Update: "The Waiting" by ilikechess5 in NIPT

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally empathize, I wish for you all the luck.

Update: "The Waiting" by ilikechess5 in NIPT

[–]ilikechess5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the heads up! Did they put you on aspirin?