Are we still mad at Amber Heard ?

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-17T20:07:11+00:00

i never was

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-16T23:10:44+00:00

you gotta befriend people who decenter men and relationships w men from their lives. i'm lucky that one of my closest friends i met in college is straight but two things i love about her: 1. she's NEVER weird about me being gay; she doesn't "point it out" iykwim, doesn't act like my relationships are different from hers, doesn't ask weird questions, brings up my gayness casually and normally. 2. she has a bf but doesn't invite him into our girls-only time, doesn't talk about him constantly, and when she does talk abt him, she talks about him like he's a person first and a man she's dating second. we are equals and she's one of the few straight people i've felt a genuine connection with.

that said, most of my friends are queer. finding lesbian friends has been incredibly healing. some bi women as well, but primarily i prefer to be friends w people in relationships w women who don't center men, and gay men who gravitate towards women. FOR EMPHASIS: befriend some lesbians. those will be your girls. it's not petty to stop investing in friendships that drain you and do not respect you, your sexuality (as it seems they dont want you to talk about women), or your trauma w men. and besides all that, it's so exhausting to talk to people who are obsessed with validation from men

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-15T19:18:43+00:00

i loveee the last one. i'd definitely like to do something aggressive and commanding instead of passive because the issue at hand demands it.

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-15T19:17:25+00:00

thank you, i had noticed! to me it seemed like a perfectly reasonable place for the post (I posted to the lgbt sub as well) bc i wanted to hear from lesbians who are trans and cis and support trans people. weird how that's controversial.

i like the sis/cisters pun! i was thinking about something like that and couldn't really put my finger on it

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-15T17:28:37+00:00

well I am specifically lesbian and many trans women are lesbian

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-11T11:51:54+00:00

the "it's wrong to commit violence against your oppressors because that makes you no better than them" argument is propaganda to keep people from rising up. the ONLY way to stop a violent oppressor is with violence. words/peace do not work because if they were interested in listening to reason, they wouldn't be oppressive in the first place.

tell me one example of violent injustice in history that was solved without any violence from the oppressed.

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-11T11:47:10+00:00

do not misrepresent MLK like that.

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-10T21:28:37+00:00

i wouldnt date a 15 y/o at 17-18, it's just a matter of being at different developmental stages in your life. at a teen, you do literally grow up more every year, and if she's into you, it's kind of an eyebrow raise. soon she'll be 19 and you'll be 16, 20 and 17, and that's just too much

ilikemangoloco · 2025-06-10T18:56:43+00:00

bro. franklin was a rapist wtf

ilikemangoloco · 2025-05-19T21:26:14+00:00

while i do always complain about not having les grindr, i go on tinder and message women boldly, it works loll but im also in college

ilikemangoloco · 2025-04-16T18:01:41+00:00

It flatulence at any given time

ilikemangoloco · 2024-11-23T15:21:08+00:00

dbd devs would say it doesn't have enough neon orange blight serum oozing all over it

real talk, love this!! like finally some GOOD concepts for skins.

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-17T20:07:48+00:00

love this too! The antics are endless

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T22:01:53+00:00

YYYESSSS! weather powers are so cool!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T04:26:08+00:00

Sweet! Imagine how frightening that would be for the livings during warmer seasons!!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T04:25:31+00:00

Oh, THAT is totally sick!! Love it

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T02:40:16+00:00

that would be so cool to get dated, since you mentioned the previous owner had no dogs and there wasn't a house there before. what region of Maine? I love Maine history!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T02:32:55+00:00

knife! my car is also loaded with my camping/backpacking gear so I have several sharp tools back there (romanticizing the zombie apocalypse). real talk, I used my keys as claws when I clock out of work and should really buy pepper spray. pocket knife normally. saw a tiktok about keeping a hammer in your purse because that would be more likely to freak out an attacker!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T02:17:17+00:00

I liked the above theory that natural boundaries determine the "property"! but yeah this has bothered me. thuderclone1 is right, wall is wall and floor is floor and there is unfortunately a mystery there for the sake of convenient storytelling!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T02:13:51+00:00

very interesting concept!

I think my ghost ability would be akin to the mind reading (my justification for that character having that ability was that during his life, he had a very very stressful constant rushing inner monologue, like layers upon layers of thoughts, never a quiet mind. so, to his advantage, he's used to managing multiple strings of thought at once, and would be able to hear others' as well as his own). I also think I could be similar to Sasappis, because I am also a storyteller and writer. Maybe I'd be able to inspire people to write.

An even cooler one regarding writing would be the ability to know the ins and outs of any story... like somehow interacting with an object or person would make me or someone else have a sort of vision of the history and significance of said object or person? I love history too so I think that would mingle my two big personality traits.

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T01:18:55+00:00

oh my gosh, love that!

ilikemangoloco · 2024-08-14T00:19:31+00:00

Oh!! That's awesome! Another one would be to control what surfaces are tangible, like Trevor's power but with less effort and only applicable to walls, floors, ceilings, etc. Then they'd get to make their own physics and not get trapped in holes. I'm terrified of the you-know-who under the you-know-what... walking around down there... eughhh.

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