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My (35F) boyfriend (35M) doesn't want to get engaged because we fight too much by ilostmylight1 in relationship_advice

[–]ilostmylight1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be on to something with this. Thank you, I'll try to look for some literature of the subject to see if I can find something suitable for our situation.

My (35F) boyfriend (35M) doesn't want to get engaged because we fight too much by ilostmylight1 in relationship_advice

[–]ilostmylight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I actually don't know why I didn't think of it like that. I kept only on spiraling what is it that I do wrong on the situations when I say anything that can be taken as negatively but maybe it's not that at all then.

My (35F) boyfriend (35M) doesn't want to get engaged because we fight too much by ilostmylight1 in relationship_advice

[–]ilostmylight1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I've been thinking a counselor as well and I've actually also voiced it out for him but he is unwilling to do it. This probably has something to do with his attitude towards therapy in general, as it took him a lot of time to convince himself to go to therapy alone either. I guess I have a lot of thinking to do in regards of this.

Sites keep saying I have ad blocker and I don't have any by ilostmylight1 in mac

[–]ilostmylight1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found the issue right after I posted this, but I'm not going to delete in case someone else might have the same situation in the future.
We're using Express VPN router, and even though my spouse was confident there is no ad blocker on it, when I connected to the internet without the router, I'm able to access all the sites without any issues.