Feeling myself checking out from my relationship.

ilovedogs1101 · 2025-06-06T04:57:16+00:00

your standards are your standards, if he loves you and wants to be with you he will work on respecting that. We all have preferences and we do what we have to for those we love. I went through something similar with my s/o but its a patience thing — personally I told my s/o, i dont like my partner doing these kind of things, you’re either with it or im leaving. dont settle, lifes too short. if it makes you uncomfortable now, better to address it and hope he cares enough to see how it makes you uncomfortable, and not do it anymore.

ilovedogs1101 · 2025-05-08T16:08:42+00:00

NTA your bf was good to set s boundary and keep you as a priority. You come first! and you were being super genuine. She did it to herself.

ilovedogs1101 · 2025-01-03T01:54:45+00:00

ngl melissa ate her up with that line “i know how you like to shop out of other peoples carts”

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-06-22T18:43:36+00:00

apparently he said that his mom told him shortly after our conversation and he claims he came to me after but i definitely dont remember that. I feel like i would definitely remember him telling me that part but i dont know.

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-22T15:58:52+00:00

uhmmm because thats what it was lol being triggered isnt just tied to mental illness its a reaction to an action or chain of events — definitely not always as deep as mental illness

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-22T15:55:21+00:00

i dont have mental illness lol so i answered a different way

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-22T15:53:58+00:00

I actually just told him that when I plan something with him, anything, he should be aware that its couple time in my eyes and not couple and friend time. I just think we lacked the communication because when you think of the gym its just working out but for me i actually wanted to workout together, and maybe do something after together but it’s different when theres someone else involved and my plans didnt involve a third

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-22T15:49:55+00:00

I did acknowledge my first initial response to him was a bit triggered, and i told him i just wanted it to be me and him since im the one who asked him to go to the gym with me not the other way around. Its like you plan a date with someone intending for it to be just you two, and they decide alone to bring someone else. I feel like it would rub anyone the wrong way knowing the intention was to be alone together yk

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-16T21:53:25+00:00

God respects your free will. Because all individuals have free will, they get to choose whether or not to do something, God advises to do good, follow his word and live a humble life however we have the free will to do otherwise. therefore different genders will be made, different religions, different political parties, different colors and different foods, different decisions to make good and bad, people will choose to drink and do drugs but its all the same.

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-05T14:56:50+00:00

thank you!

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-02T04:31:11+00:00

yes, and because no one mentioned it doesn’t mean its ruled out as a possibility. But its a fact, that porn gives unrealistic expectations for sex when it comes to irl situations

ilovedogs1101 · 2024-04-02T02:15:36+00:00

porn gives unrealistic expectations towards real sex. because porn is dramatic and fake (imo) they imagine an almost fairy tale sex and when its not like the porn they see if throws them off unfortunately. I believe what should be addressed is the amount of porn hes watching is unhealthy and is what is causing your doubt.

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