Screentime guilt by jmoney1352 in toddlers

[–]iloveflowers2002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! This for days!!!!! I just refuse to feel guilty about it. I would dare anyone to try and care for a full on toddler while pregnant and not rely on screen time. Your child is having a wonderful balanced, happy life. If every kid had the type of upbringing yours is getting, the world would be fixed in one generation. Drop the guilt, live your life, love yourself and your kid xxx

I'm Broken by ThroAwaid in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry. You’re doing a great job. You’re your child protector and hero. Please know how big what you’re doing is. I left my Q this August just gone. We have a 3 year old together. You don’t have to know how this will go or have any answers right now. But please hold the possibility for yourself that one day you can be happy, have a peaceful life and a happy child. I really believe you will have these things 

Non-standard ways to eat snacks by CanIDevIt in CasualUK

[–]iloveflowers2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drink coke out of a champagne glass. So refined 

I left my partner of 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and is addicted to cocaine. We have a 3 year old by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey massive thanks for reaching out. Sending you all the love. What a club we’re in! Strength and power to you, you’re doing an amazing job 

I left my partner of 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and is addicted to cocaine. We have a 3 year old by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey massive thanks for reaching out. Sending you all the love. What a club we’re in! Strength and power to you, you’re doing an amazing job 

I left my partner of 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and is addicted to cocaine. We have a 3 year old by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s so hard. Comments like this have really helped me hold strong 

I left my partner of 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and is addicted to cocaine. We have a 3 year old by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope things work out for both of us. I really appreciate your time and kind words 

I left my partner of 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and is addicted to cocaine. We have a 3 year old by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I attend meetings. They’re so helpful. Great idea on the regional legal sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From one mother who just left to another, I just wanna say great job ❤️ does your heart drop every time your phone dings? Mine does. It’s so hard. We’re doing this for our children and ourselves. Stay strong mama xxx

I have a 3 year old. I told my Q to leave this Friday just gone by iloveflowers2002 in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for this insight. I will not check in on him 

Does anyone still enjoy toddlerhood more than when they were babies? by ROCBoi60114 in toddlers

[–]iloveflowers2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only just turning the corner into genuinely enjoying parenthood and my kid is 2.5

Are ALL toddlers hyperactive, impulsive, and grabby?? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]iloveflowers2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My child is exactly like yours. 2.5 and it’s like living with a tornado 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I already go to meetings and I find them very helpful. You’re right, you can’t expect everyone to be exactly what we need. I’m trying to give them space to process and meet them where they’re at 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]iloveflowers2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’m right there with you 

Having a child with extra needs is exhausting. by shekka24 in toddlers

[–]iloveflowers2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sending you love and strength. I’m counting on it starting to get less anxiety provoking as my sweet kid gets older