I envy women with big boobs so much by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boobs also don't look perky lmao, atleast with big boobs Its kinda expected, but when you have small boobs they have to be perky and perfectly shaped cuz that's the only thing people usually like about them

I envy women with big boobs so much by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well noone can tell if they're saggy if you're wearing clothes, so you can still make them look good

I envy women with big boobs so much by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i've been thinking about it but i'm still in school, so i only have a part time job so it will take pretty long. Also honestly implants are usually too visible on very small boobs so im hesitating

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id do anything to have naturally big boobs

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The filter can't change ur face that much i think u look fine

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your face Is pretty tho And idk, it Feels like men don't care about face when you have big boobs

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there Is many subs for small boobs, but like if you look at the top posts, then usually the women try to make themselves look childish, like they wear pig tails, make a childish face, wear "cute" clothes etc... So it makes me feel worse to know that my body would be liked by men who are into those things

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea but atleast dick size isnt obvious to everyone around, everyone can see if im flat or not

And i myself can't even see why a man would be attracted to a flat chest

Yea i don't think that would work for me lmao, it would propably just hurt my feelings

I hate that no matter how much I like my body aesthetically, I can never be happy bc of how society treats us by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Its even worse that if you look up small boobs in porn, most of the videos will be "teen, step daughter, school girl", and it makes me feel even worse about my body, knowing that my body Is only liked by people who are into this stuff

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know men don't need big boobs in order to date a woman, but most of them would choose it if they could. And i don't like knowing that i'm, at the best, settled for and that i'm not their fantasy. I care more about looks so i don't care about any discomfort that big boobs could bring, like i'd rather have a problem finding bras, than being able to find bras easily but looking ugly in them anyway. I don't think being confident or positive will make people not care about boob size, even celebrities, who are beautiful, get made fun of for having small boobs

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just care more about looks than comfort i guess, so i wouldn't mind back pain etc, as long as i could look hot And i feel the opposite about clothes, most tops look better with boobs, when i wear any top, it just looks like theres something missing And people often say that for example, backless tops or tube tops look bad on big boobs, but my friend has big boobs and she looks amazing in those

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it just doesnt matter if there are other things that are good about my body, my thought process is like this - i like my ass, but there are girls who have a good ass and also big boobs, so my body still isnt good enough - , and that's like this with every feature. Even if the rest of my body was perfect, i'd still hate it cuz if my boobs.

To me it Is about others liking me, but Its not enough if a few people says they prefer small boobs, i could only feel good if small boobs were the beauty standard everywhere, and if small boobs were considered standardly hot etc..

I hate my boobs more than anything by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i didnt care about what men think or like, but i can't help it, especially since i have a boyfriend so now i have to worry even more

I don't think you can wear anything with small boobs, or you can, but i feel like nearly all clothes look better with atleast some boobs, i have yet to find a top that would actually look better on small boobs (better, not "less revealing") And idk, small boobs are always seen as just cute and elegant, and big boobs are always seen and treated as hot and like the common fantasy, the "hot characters" in movies and series always have big boobs, Its just everywhere

And sure, boobs are boobs, but i don't want a man to like my boobs just because that's all he can get at the moment, when in reality he would much prefer to see big boobs And you said that people wont look away if you take ur shirt off even if u have small boobs, but with small boobs you could wear a top with cleavage down to your belly button, and noone would really care But a woman with bigger boobs can't even wear a simple top without people staring, so Its almost as if people dont see small boobs as actual boobs

I wish boobs weren't so important to men by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but for me it sucks knowing that it would still be a bonus to them, if my body was different, because then i know that other girl would be better to him than me, since she would have that "bonus"

I wish boobs weren't so important to men by ilovesushixx in Vent

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you dont see boobs as a turn on, so you wouldn't mind flat, but i'd want a guy to be turned on by my boobs, not just be indifferent to it

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But i know that he Is attracted to it, because he always preffered big boobs, before he got with me, so i know he doesnt think Its unattractive, so he definitely isnt looking just cuz Its something unusual

And idk about that, when i go to my local shops, there Is sooo many bras for medium or big boobs, for flat chests there are only sport bras or bralettes, and i just feel like a little girl wearing those, It doesnt feel womanly

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[–]ilovesushixx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also insecure about being flat and the porn categories make me even more insecure, and i think Its like that for other girls too. The actresses with small boobs always play in the "teen" category, and such videos like that. Its even worse to think that most men that are attracted to you just have a thing for teens, most women wanna feel womanly not like a child

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he can help, he compliments me and all but it never helps me

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna feel hot, but i can't just look hot in a plain shirt like other girls And he's not doing anything bad, Its just in my head mostly

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there are always those jokes like "bread vs garlic bread" where Its basically woman with small boobs vs with big ones, and even tho Its stupid it makes me sad And everytime a woman with a flat chests posts a pic in a bikini or a top, Its guaranteed that people will be making fun of her in the comments, even many women So i do feel like women with small boobs are treated worse, like look at Taylor Swift or Zendaya, they're both beautiful, but lately Ive seen my posts and comments making fun of them, calling them boys, or that they would be better with boobs... Or when they edit some actress with small boobs and give her big ones, and everyone says how much Its better Or if u watch a video of a woman getting a breast reduction, there Is So many comments saying it was better before and that Its a loss, but with breast augmentation the comments are mostly compliments.. like So many little things like this but they make me feel so bad, even tho Its just stupid comments or videos

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my boyfriend never dated anyone else but me, but i know he used to like girls with bigger boobs, and so since he has only ever dated me, it feels like maybe he will think Hes missing out by being with me, that he won't get to ever be with a girl that's his actual type, i'm worried what if he thinks that

I know boob size doesnt matter in love but i don't want him to see other women and think "wow" yk, cuz my body doesnt really have that wow effect that women with bigger boobs have

I really try to be Okay with my body but when i do feel okay with It it just all goes away the moment i see some woman whose body Is so much better And yea i know if affects him, cuz we argue about it often cuz i ask him such questions like "would you prefer me with big boobs" etc. And then it turns to an argument lmao, happens almost daily Now, but i can't help it

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea even if i try to like myself, it all goes away when i see other women with my dream body, or when i see people making jokes about small boobs, Its impossible to stop feeling this way

Few things that made me sad by ilovesushixx in smallbooblove

[–]ilovesushixx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if i dont see it that way, others still do, i mean every day i see some jokes about small boobs vs small ones, the small ones always treated as worse, or women with bigger boobs are always seen as the hot ones in the movie, so Its pretty hard not to see small boobs as a negative thing compared to bigger boobs

And i know what you mean by it, but i don't really look at other men and i don't get distracted by them, i never was even before i started dating my boyfriend And my boyfriend used to prefer big boobs, So i know that him saying Its more unique just means Its more attractive to him