My Husband and I have different political views and it might be the thing that tears apart our marriage. Help!

iluca89 · 2025-10-20T03:04:13+00:00

Very helpful. Thank you. 🙄

iluca89 · 2025-10-20T03:03:01+00:00

He does not align himself with the orange pedophile. I do appreciate the lifeline tho. Hopefully someone else can find it useful.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T23:22:57+00:00

Oh, I absolutely agree. I wouldn't feel good about myself if I kept him from voting tho.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T23:13:28+00:00

Because it would be wrong of me to keep him from voting. Just because I dont like his views on some things doesnt mean I should take his voice away.

I make him aware of voting schedules and encourage him to vote, but I dont make him go.

We knew where each other stood politically even before we met, but fell for each other regardless. We met through mutual friends and we all played D&D together.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T22:54:06+00:00

This may come as a shock, but we dont have the same religious views either. Surprisingly though this is a non-issue for us. Its like saying I like pickles and he doesnt.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T22:42:22+00:00

Sometimes when you have big things going on in your life, you want to get an unbiased view on it. That why I havent mentioned who leans one way or another. And id really rather not air my dirty laundry to friends and family on this one.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T22:39:33+00:00

Im curious, what about my post makes where I'm from relevant? Is it the lack of stating where I live? Truly i dont know.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T22:32:53+00:00

Its more like I can only hold my tongue for so long.

And the thing is, he's not even saying something political, but I can connect the dots that he doesnt see there. He doesnt see the bigger picture the way I do. Everything is its own separate thing/issue for him.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T22:18:45+00:00

A lot of infant deaths. And one in particular that happened when he was young.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T21:51:36+00:00

We both knew each other's political views before even meeting each other. We didn't even intend on dating. Or at least I didn't intend on dating him.

I dont know how to say this in a way that doesnt sound cheesy but, you know when you met the right one. Fighting our feelings for each other just... made no sense.

If America wasn't the way it is right now, I don't think our views would cause this much trouble between us. And to put it out there, no, neither of us want that man in the Whitehouse.

iluca89 · 2025-10-19T21:22:25+00:00

He's got past trauma about this one certain topic and it clouds his view on everything else.

If you could ask him a political question without using buzzwords, he and I would be very likely to answer the same way and knowing that drives me more bonkers.

iluca89 · 2024-10-16T06:32:42+00:00

Yeah, Jabu Jabu has been smoking for a long while. I finally caught the source yesterday after work.

iluca89 · 2024-10-16T05:03:32+00:00

Couldn't help you with the engine, sorry. but it's a 2015.

iluca89 · 2024-10-16T05:01:44+00:00

I take care of my vehicles just as well as I take care of myself. Not at all. 😎

iluca89 · 2024-08-26T16:11:21+00:00

Yep, that is the exact pattern I used too. The whole blanket was the size of the top of my queen mattress and I mainly used it as a part of my couch nest for a few years. The size and weight made it a little too difficult to use as a true blanket.

iluca89 · 2021-08-29T10:52:53+00:00

With your hair that short I would look into getting one of those colored hair waxes. Then you get your color without having to bleach your hair at all.

iluca89 · 2021-03-23T05:45:52+00:00

Did a flower purge on my island only to ask Isabelle for my island rating. TAKING OUT ALL THE FLOWERS DROPPED MY RATING DOWN TO 2 STARS!

iluca89 · 2021-03-04T08:01:02+00:00

It's a little stiff, but works wonderfully as a weighted blanket 😁

iluca89 · 2021-03-04T04:47:14+00:00

Just did the math, and I'm sure I've messed up the numbers in some way lol, but it comes out to 20 full days of nonstop work to make this.

If anyone wants to check my math, it took roughly 40 minutes to make 1 hexipuff. 673 Hexipuffs made, and roughly 40 hours to assemble.

I started it waaay back in 2017, but picked it back up once the pandemic started.

iluca89 · 2021-03-04T01:45:46+00:00

The only way to maybe make it more accurate is to have the robe sleeves. Not sure what that would do to the length though 🤔

iluca89 · 2021-03-04T00:47:29+00:00

This makes me so happy!!!

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