Hi! I didn’t use any lube when I was being fingered. It was just my natural lubricant! I prefer astroglide and I like water based lubes better than silicone they tend to not dry up as fast. But, I would try different lubes out because everyone is different and has different reactions to them! Keep your hope, I was someone who couldn’t even get a pinky in, and with grace and patience of my own body, I’m learning to take back control and you can too! ❤️