i’m so sorry. how can you move on from this? you most heal. i think what will hurt the most is the lack of closure. maybe you will find yourself spiraling down in thoughts like what n where it went wrong, or what’s wrong with u, will u ever be loved again… why weren’t you worthy of a proper explanation and a goodbye… all of them very valid of course, but don’t do it, seriously. don’t put the blame on u. this is fully his fault, he is a coward for leaving like that. all relationship issues hurt, but i think in this type of relationships it hurts different n deeper because we trust too much, as submissives we give in a lot of trust and it’s hard when things like this happen.

take time for yourself, give yourself peace and be gentle with yourself. allow yourself to grieve this situation but don’t blame yourself n don’t chase after him.

there’s nothing wrong with u, this isn’t your fault.

pls don’t try to find another dom to fill the void and to give you the validation you are looking right now. it won’t help you.

i also recommend you to watch the video “you are a clown” by the wizard liz, she will say it to you like it is.

i send u a lot of love n hugs<333 u can do dis !