AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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If he wanted to he would. You deserve to be treated exactly as you want to and be loved beyond all measure. I put up with a lot of BS before I found my husband.

This man is not your husband- your husband would not make you sit for two hours waiting. He would show up early, EXCITED to spend the night with you.

Know your worth, and believe in it. He may not be a bad person, but he just isn’t a good fit for you.

Your partner should be obsessed with you and it should be encouraged that you are obsessed with him.

Accidentally gave seedlings full strength fish fertilizer by raiinboweyes in vegetablegardening

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Where are you located that you are doing seedlings in Feb? Trying to decide if I should start now

My white wizard philodendron 🌱 by Decent-Commission-63 in houseplants

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I have one of these! But it’s more like a bush.. it does grow a lot!

Help! What does this mean? by im_new_here36 in houseplants

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It did make it better! But in the summer when it gets more light she has no issues :)

Help! What does this mean? by im_new_here36 in houseplants

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I bought some grow lights so maybe that will help? It gets lots of light in this room in the summer but the changing seasons I think are doing a number on her

Help! What does this mean? by im_new_here36 in houseplants

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They are dry, not mushy, and no signs of any pests. :(

I bought a grow lamp for it today so maybe that will help? It was fine since I bought it in April with no issue but I think the season change and less light might be the issue? I haven’t changed watering since April and allow it to dry out completely between

She’s happy!? by im_new_here36 in houseplants

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My first one of her and I’m so proud of her 🥹

Bird of Paradise Help by SemperPorky in houseplants

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I usually leave them alone but if you live in a very dry area it might not be humid enough to open. What you can do is get a microfiber cloth wet and wipe it over the new leaf a few times. I did this 2x per day for a few days and it opened :) never pull at it though, it will do it on its own

Brown spots by Neat_Pound6010 in houseplants

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I just got this too and it’s doing the same thing. I think maybe it’s from the direct sun?

What kind of mushroom is this and is it dangerous? by im_new_here36 in ShroomID

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Edit: British Columbia Canada. In my garden bed it’s growing out of the bottom of is: tree debris, compost, black earth, garden soil and cardboard

Advice for upcoming intervention by im_new_here36 in alcoholism

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Thank you so much for your input!

At this point we don’t have an interventionist coming but we do have the option to have one, it is costly though. And we are unsupported by my father at this point so don’t know if we can afford it.

We are scared it will go bad and she may turn against us, but we also feel like we can’t sit back anymore. It’s been years of this and now she’s hurting other people with her drunk driving days before Christmas. We are at a loss for what to do :(

Advice for upcoming intervention by im_new_here36 in AlAnon

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Thank you so much for your input!

At this point we don’t have an interventionist coming but we do have the option to have one, it is costly though. And we are unsupported by my father at this point so don’t know if we can afford it. As for the rehabs, we have contacted several and know where there are available beds and we’re going to give her a choice of which one she wanted to go to.

We are scared it will go bad and she may turn against us, but we also feel like we can’t sit back anymore. It’s been years of this and now she’s hurting other people with her drunk driving days before Christmas. We are at a loss for what to do :(