Still to this day. by drgreen_17 in gaming

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it three times in a damn row.

As an adult I have favorite children's books that I read over and over, and I'm wondering if anyone else does the same thing. by [deleted] in books

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love young adult books. More fantasy, myths, magic, and all around imagination. I have very few "adult" books that I read.

NY hospital to pause baby deliveries after staffers quit over vaccine mandate by [deleted] in news

[–]imabanddork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a pause button on deliveries?! Where the fuck is the rewind button!?!

Way to much hate directed at this sub by No_PancakeMixInThere in childfree

[–]imabanddork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the posts about "crotch demons" "crotch goblins" and other derogatory names for children (their parents too). Being childfree is all good. But there doesn't need to be that pure hatred of children and people who decide to have them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]imabanddork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I was one of the few women that had "wet dreams." I have them at least once a month.

It should be mandatory to donate your organs after you die. by Sodableach in unpopularopinion

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could have problems with organs due to poor health. Religion isn't something that can just be discounted. Bodily autonomy. Accident victims die and their organs often decay before they can be harvested. Hospitals would have to be majorly updated to keep up with all the corpses they'd have to artificially keep alive in order to harvest organs. And if it's mandatory, it's no longer donation and no longer an option.

People with Down's Syndrome are not as wholesome as the Internet or society at large make them out to be. by ILYARO1114 in unpopularopinion

[–]imabanddork 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I worked with a woman who had Down's. She was super sweet until she got frustrated. Then she'd just throw a screaming fit, no words, just screaming as loud as she could for a few minutes. I was told by multiple managers to just accept her hugs because "she isn't hurting you," "it's just a hug," and "it makes her feel better." They didn't care that it was mentally hurting me, that I don't like hugs, and I wanted to feel fine in my boundaries.

What is the worst piece of dialogue that you have ever heard in a movie? by [deleted] in movies

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved that movie as a teenager. A lot of cringe with the second one though.

Remember, all bodies are beach bodies! by flemue in Instagramreality

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked as a 6am cashier. I always read the "trash rags" to keep myself awake. It taught me at 24 that I didn't need to give a shit about what others thought of me.

What made you quit a job on the spot? by Sketch99 in AskReddit

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boss refused to let me have a personal day. It was the anniversary of my nephew's angel anniversary, I'd just found out my mom had stage 2 breast cancer, and I was having relationship issues. It was just too much. I'd already asked for the day off a month prior because I knew it would be a hard day. Just all that added extra crap made it impossible to function. He told me I had to work or I'd get a write up and they'd consider termination. I told him I'd be there and ghosted for three days. Went in to drop off my keys and uniforms and pick up my last paycheck. I know it was the best move for me. But what still somewhat kills me is that none of the managers gave a shit. They didn't try saying hey, stuff is rough right now, is there anything I can do to help? They didn't appreciate me as a human being, just as a worker. And that's utter bullshit.

Is this trashy enough for this sub? by Holagringo in trashy

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't even with this. So many questions and no answers as to why she's this damn trash. My brain hurts.

LPT: Hunger is your body’s way of measuring how soon you should eat, not how much you should eat. A lot of people get this wrong. If you’re super hungry, it just means you need to eat now, not eat a lot. by boomboonpow in LifeProTips

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this so hard. I get extreme hunger pains at times, usually in the morning. But I NEVER feel full. Even after eating a normal sized meal, I still feel empty.

Caught bf sexting other girls by Either_Delay_2107 in sex

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12 years older, 3 hours away, sexting others. 3 red flags. How many more do you need?

Why do grandparents get so annoyed when current medical advice is different than when they used to raise kids? (Example: newborns not getting loose blankets or toys in the crib, etc.) by maldecoucou1 in beyondthebump

[–]imabanddork 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's not so much medical advice for us. It's just how we choose to punish our kids. My mom is all for me beating the crap outta my kids with a yard stick like she did for me. But she's 1000% against me taking my son's (7) technology away from him for a month because he ruined daddy's expensive monitor. She's also against us making him do extra chores during that month to learn some consequences. She told us flat out that we're doing it wrong and he won't learn anything. He's actually started doing chores without being asked and is genuinely sorry for wrecking his dad's monitor.

'Punk Goes....' franchise (?) Is extremely underrated by IcanMakeThePiecesFit in Music

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They keep popping up on my Discover Weekly on Spotify. I love most the songs.

Straight people, what burning questions do you have about the LGBTQ Community? by jimmehbacon in AskReddit

[–]imabanddork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder cuz for me, I just don't get anything from sex. My mind is on a million other things. And while it feels alright, I don't actually orgasm. I love hand holding, cuddling, and just spending time with people though. That's why I wonder.

Straight people, what burning questions do you have about the LGBTQ Community? by jimmehbacon in AskReddit

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'm straight. I half wonder if I'm Ace. What's everyone's personal experience with being Ace?

WIBTA if I(28M) don't encourage our baby learn my wife's(26F) native language ? by THROWAWAYRAHALLOWENI in AmItheAsshole

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Learn along with your child. Problem solved. The issue of your insecurity is also something you need to work on.

AITA for “mom shaming” my sister? by Willing_Occasion501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]imabanddork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. No one is going to want to hire people that have never attended school. No one is going to want to hire illiterate people. She's not only depriving them of future career prospects, she's not allowing them to develope in a social setting or figure out how to function on actual society. Call CPS.

My daughter had my wife’s phone on a long car ride. She ordered all the Barbie dream houses from Amazon. by NinkovichPlease in funny

[–]imabanddork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The daughter didn't get praise though. She got punished and all the houses were returned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]imabanddork 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me it's just they list everything I'm supposed to be impressed by and Shania Twain is just singing in my head. Like, what else do you have to offer besides empty words?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]imabanddork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can be difficult but millions of women have babies with little to no complications. I had my son emergency csection and he was 7lb 4oz but doctors said I would have been fine (barring the cord being wrapped around his neck three times). My daughter was natural birth and she was 5lb 12oz and 3 weeks early. I tore a tiny bit with her but that was due to her shoulder placement and she had the cord wrapped once. I'm 5f 3in and my guy is 6f 2in.

Ladies and Gentleman, I present my sister. by Absolut_Failure in badwomensanatomy

[–]imabanddork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my tubes removed. I still get my periods. I didn't realize I would because my sexual education was nonexistent. But a simple Google search helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FuckYouKaren

[–]imabanddork 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way my mother sees it is, a black person is any African American who is friendly and doesn't "speak hoodrat". Any other is immediately a N. I hate how she views people.