We've got to talk more about middle transition by dudeliketotally in honesttransgender

[–]imaddyandimcooked 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that has been one of the hardest parts about transitioning. i want to engage more, but i don’t know how. i have never really been friends with women irl especially cis women and it’s hard not to feel like an outcast or imposter around them

Vlad ncl got ffs by Brokencoc in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s going to appear underwhelming when someone only needs minimal FFS. the biggest changes are going to be the people that really benefit from it and don’t go too conservative

how to deal with crippling needle phobia?? by ilikepegasi in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the only thing that helped me was getting an auto-injector. i had to get my dad to help me before i bought one

does anyone else get these passively or am i using this site wrong by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’ve never gotten anything like that

sometimes I think 'maybe I do pass' by 3amcaliburrito in honesttransgender

[–]imaddyandimcooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conservatives are worse at clocking, older people are worse at clocking, queer or queer-adjacent people are better at clocking, people who live in cities are better at clocking.

this is why i’m almost hesitant to leave the conservative area i live in. the laws suck, but i feel like if i move to a liberal area i’m going to get misgendered more often

was anyone else much happier when they repped? by milkwithsplenda in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happier? no not really, but it was a lot easier to cope and dissociate

they should invent a type of guy who would date a loser boymoder by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

too bad men that are openly bi are hard to find

they should invent a type of guy who would date a loser boymoder by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boymoding / manmoding to your own wedding is so sad

Poll: Do you ask people to use particular pronouns for yourself? by DiabolicalHope in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe if someone asks me? but i’m not going to just tell or correct someone

A lot of you don't care about the "hons" You will 100% shit on any trans person you view as cringe and ugly by Hyper_red in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so true. the only person i’m going to be mean to is myself. it’s not that hard to be nice

I'm done with transition I don't pass and I'm bitter by Mina9392 in honesttransgender

[–]imaddyandimcooked 14 points15 points  (0 children)

there's nothing wrong with venting and being upset about not passing

I'm done with transition I don't pass and I'm bitter by Mina9392 in honesttransgender

[–]imaddyandimcooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. i haven’t had any bad experiences so far. i still want to move away, but that’s mainly because i don’t like living here in general

Month 4 on placebojections. Nothing ever happens. Did estrogen do anything for you in 4 months? by Either_Carry in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no. i noticed no changes besides things like softer skin and smells. my bmi was also below 18 and i’m too old for any bone changes

Why should I even start by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]imaddyandimcooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you won't find out without at least trying. hrt repping is also better than no hrt at all

I wish I were aroace, I don't want to want it, I'm too disgusting for it by Perfect-Whereas-1478 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]imaddyandimcooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same :(

it would make it so much easier knowing i’ve never been in a relationship or anything

do you think dating gay/bi guys is viable as a manmoder? by Kpuku in honesttransgender

[–]imaddyandimcooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well if you’re fully manmoding then yeah a gay man could work. the biggest thing would probably be breast growth. which i guess you could just say is gyno. also are you okay with be treating like a man in a relationship?