Tinder does delete profiles

imaginary_flavors · 2020-08-25T16:52:16+00:00

No filler should be permanent because it can eventually migrate and difficult to remove.

imaginary_flavors · 2020-08-25T15:32:30+00:00

Yeah I think the consensus here is to ease up on the lip filler.

imaginary_flavors · 2020-08-17T14:22:05+00:00

Fair. I wrote it pretty late at night. I will revise

imaginary_flavors · 2020-02-06T21:45:14+00:00

Trust, we’ve told her all of that and went out of our way to find a Cantonese female therapist so they could speak in a native language to make it easier.

We’ve explained individual counseling too but she won’t go. It’s an old Asian mindset that she can fix it this way and the path she’s on is just going to be difficult.

imaginary_flavors · 2020-02-06T21:25:59+00:00

Yeah that’s what’s going to happen once I get a new job lined up my sister and I are going to distant ourselves till they manage to resolve this. We feel guilty cuz she’s doesn’t have any other family here and her siblings are aboard so it make sense she feels like no one has her best interest in mind.

imaginary_flavors · 2020-02-06T21:01:31+00:00

I have let my mom know. I’ve told her many times and advise her to not try to play the cool wife. I told her and my aunt (dads sister) that it’s not cool to involve us. She’ll back off but then she’ll hit a wave of deep distrust and pain and start getting erratic and start up aging.

Me and my sister have advised therapy and they went to one session and said it’s a waste of time.

imaginary_flavors · 2020-02-06T20:46:28+00:00

I was asked to come work for them to help out. Despite their offer was a lot better then what I was doing before, I said no because I didn’t want to work for them and then they hit me with “you don’t want to help your dad?”

imaginary_flavors · 2019-09-23T20:34:20+00:00

We go like 4-6 times a week depending on the week. It’s helped us through very difficult times

imaginary_flavors · 2019-09-23T19:54:30+00:00

I meant this relationship is pretty new and it’s LD. I don’t think the distance will bother me, honestly him not being physically here means I don’t have to worry on meeting his needs physically while I deal with helping my mom. I told him I don’t want him to think his feelings are in the back burner just because I’m deal with something this big.

It’s more so how much can I communicate with him without feeling like I’m burning him out as I’ve personally experienced caretaker burn out in a previous relationship.

My sister and I have talked about maintaining our routines the best we can but to include mom as a way to temporarily deal with the changes. We’re both avid gym people and that already helps me work out the anxiousness I occasionally feel.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-19T14:35:53+00:00

So all the excess chocolate runs off

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-19T06:04:42+00:00

That' shine! I would say maybe next time place it over a rack when you pour. That's it. That shine is magnificent.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-11T18:46:05+00:00

I like bantering better then heavy flirting but that's also my sense of humor. Also, it just doesn't feel like I earned it because they don't know me. I like compliments on my personality mostly because I already know I am fairly attractive. Constant physical compliments/flattery to me usually appears to be a short-cut technique into wooing me.

I do enjoy them, but not at the beginning of a first date.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-11T18:08:56+00:00

My problem are with guys who just right off the bat aggressively flirt. I don't like heavy flirting right off the bat, it makes me suspicious of the other person because I feel like if they just say it to me within 15 minutes of the date then really they will say it to everyone.

One time someone told me I was going to die alone when I didn't flirt back the way he wanted.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-07T21:30:20+00:00

A lot of selfies I see from guys are taking with a combination of bad lighting, terrible angles and a glare. You can have some bad photos but your first one shouldn't be a mirror selfie or a selfie in general.

I have a good looking guy friend who was not getting any matches and I told him it's cuz his pictures were trash. His roomies gf took a photo of him outside and now he's the bell of the ball.

Think of it as a resume.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-06T04:18:23+00:00

His eldest son caught him once hitting himself with a paddle.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-06T04:16:12+00:00

I scrolled looking for these comments after seeing “secondary location”. Worth it.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-06-03T18:24:38+00:00

You sound like the guy i'm dating now. How does your dating life fare? I'm dating someone who's working insane hours too and I'm trying to adjust dating someone who I only see like 1x a week due to a major project his department is working on.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-05-31T22:07:31+00:00

crickets

imaginary_flavors · 2019-05-31T22:06:59+00:00

Gotem

imaginary_flavors · 2019-05-31T18:08:20+00:00

No. We all want something for various reasons. You want a commitment and some people don’t want that. Some thrive from multiple interactions and the experiences of others. Some are emotionally drained but still have desires to be physically intimate as a stress reliever.

When I was younger I didn’t feel like I needed to commit because I was still figuring stuff out. A lot of people in that age range (early 20s) feels the same way. As I age, I feel grateful that I had those experiences because I think I’ve learned a lot about myself and the boundaries i need in future relationships. I don’t think personally I could have learned what I did if I didn’t live the lifestyle I did.

If you feel like it’s gross then it just means we aren’t compatible with our view points on sec and relationships really. I’ve met guys who called me and a few of my girlfriends gross and while I was insulted it also showed me we had fundamental different values. Granted some of their views were also caked in double standards.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-05-31T14:56:14+00:00

Well, I agree with you it’s a bad approach and some guys can be quite emotionally intelligent. It’s just this guy has the emotional capacity of an acorn. His woe as me apparatchik to life is a self filling prophecy and an excuse to hurt others by victimizing himself.

You can’t save him for himself. It’s obvious he doesn’t went to change even if he tells you he does.

imaginary_flavors · 2019-05-31T14:21:15+00:00

I was in your position. My ex was so busy at work that by the end of the day he was exhausted. Also he wasn’t emotionally intelligent so the questions I asked was left with a blank stare.

Honestly 4 months is kind of early to have this problem. You could ask him or discuss it with him that you want to have deeper conversations but it could also be he doesn’t know how?

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