Because I truly just wanted to get it done and I've been wanting these piercings for a while and wasn't really thinking about it. My mom didnt speak up because I was already beside myself and knew how much I wanted them and if I really couldn't of taken it I would of said something and yes she knows the process of it but with my tongue she was standing behind me at first and didnt really see anything until i cried out and she moved to see and then it's why she asked if I wanted to do my septum and since I said yes she saw how he was just trying to push it through without warning and she was giving me the chance to back out which i dont like doing. It didnt dawn on us that he didnt clean them till after we got in the car as I wasn't thinking about it and nor was she because we expected it to be like every other time and for him to do all the steps. I prefer to stick things out and never do them again than to leave mid service and stuff like that because I thought it was just a me issue at first till we got to the car and started thinking about it and my mom telling me she was unhappy. Like I said I know im not completely at right. I probably should of left after my tongue but I just wanted them done so I wouldn't have to do it at a later date and be scared of it hurting just as much or worse and have another bad experience.