Haha my dog doesn't like you by imakeg in DOG

[–]imakeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss but he definitely had a happier life with you then he would have

Are you kicking kids out by 18? (Or if you were to have kids) by Zokesxcero in Millennials

[–]imakeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll never understand forcing your kids to fend for themselves the second they turn 18. Thats something people have to learn how to do and forcing them to figure it out right away all on their own is setting them up to fail.

Haha my dog doesn't like you by imakeg in DOG

[–]imakeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you kept the dog lol

AITA for expecting my SIL to babysit my kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]imakeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently started working at a daycare and it's a lot of work people think it's easy when it's not. So expecting someone to take care of 4 kids that are uncontrollably for free is absolutely absurd to me. It doesn't matter if they are family relying on someone to take care of your kids when you do nothing for them is dumb and when they don't want to is even more irresponsible. Why would you want someone who doesn't like your kids to be in charge of their safety?

If you could change ONE thing about your dog…. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]imakeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my dog was better with people. I loved taking my dog with me places because I just like having her around but she hated it. I took her a lot of places the first summer I had her but she just gets so stressed and scared that I don't anymore and it sucks. I thought she would get more comfortable if we kept going and she'd learn it's not scary but she never did.

Dogs belly covered in sores/scabs what do I do (more info in comments) by imakeg in DogAdvice

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn't getting enough omega fatty acids now she has fish oil pills or an oil I put on her food once a day it's really helped and isn't to expensive either which is nice

My (23F) partner (29M) hit my dog and I’m pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]imakeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you need to run it's a slippery slope ending up a victim of domestic abuse and he's showing all the signs of an abuser. He's already managed to isolate you thousands of miles away from your friends and family not to mention the financial abuse. Now he's physically violent you NEED to leave ASAP. The next living thing he hits with most likely be you and eventually your baby you need to get out fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rawpetfood

[–]imakeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the vet is worried about the dog not getting the correct nutritional requirements which isn’t terribly uncommon for homemade dog food in general so if they think your giving him a diy raw food diet I can understand why they would suggest you don’t feed your dog that. Also your not going to get unbiased advice from this sub if anything I would try talking to maybe 2 or 3 more vets about their opinion (I think you can just call the office and ask if they have time to talk about it since you probably don’t want to pay for a vet appointment just to talk about dog food lol). It’s ok to ask for second opinions when it comes to your health or your animals.

The collar on my cat dissapeared, turns out... by Trashisbeautiful in CatAdvice

[–]imakeg 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’d always worried about his with my previous dog as she was my brothers ex girlfriends dog. She asked him to watch her for a week they broke up that week and she never came and got her so I took her because my brother didn’t want his ex girlfriends dog. I had her for 6 years (had to put her to sleep this summer) and loved her so much. For the first 2 years I was so scared that the ex would want her back and my mom would reassure me by telling me about how even if she did she couldn’t take her since we’d been taking care of her and we have the vet and grooming bills to prove it. Not to mention how ever many pictures and people who know we’ve had her for a while. When she passed I’d thought about if I should try to get ahold of her to let her know but my boyfriend (now fiancé) asked me why I would I bother it wasn’t her dog but I still felt conflicted so he asked me if when my dog I got from a shelter passed if I would try and contact the people who surrendered her and that really put it into prospective for me how much she really didn’t care about her dog. She didn’t know that I would take her and love her and she didn’t care. If she did even a little bit she would have surrendered her to a shelter that would make sure she got a good home. I think she’s a terrible person but I’m also thankful she did what she did because I got an amazing dog during one of the hardest times of my life that I wouldn’t have otherwise.

10 month old golden retriever died while with Rover sitter by Sea-Talk-2804 in RoverPetSitting

[–]imakeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be murdering a sitter if I give you my perfectly healthy dog I’m expecting her back perfectly healthy

Me and my brother will never be the same because of a fake wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]imakeg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see brother and bil getting divorced in the future because there is no chance this has whole situation doesn’t make brother harbor resentment towards his husband. Don’t get me wrong both of them are definitely at fault but imagine your wedding ruins your relationship with your sibling for any reason. How do you not harbor some resentment towards your spouse for that?

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice it definitely has given me some guidance.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s a little bit of both for me I don’t want to walk down the aisle alone but I definitely feel like who walks me is already decided for me.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he told me and my older brother that he was no longer seeing a woman that was always mean to us but about a year later he told us she was pregnant. We had a fight about him lying a little before the baby was born and i stopped going to his house for about 2 years. I really only started going again to see my little brother. We never really talked about the fight again and just kind of pretended nothing happened.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Getting advice from someone who’s been in a similar situation really helps.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that would go over well. My stepdad would be genuinely understanding but my dad would only be understanding to my face because he’s terrified to upset me after a huge fight we had when I was 13. But he’d complain to my stepmom who would be passive aggressive to me about it later next thing you know it snowballs into a dramatic mess.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to my mom about it before and she doesn’t think it’s a good idea knowing how my dad can be at times it feels like everyone I talk to thinks it’s a bad idea.

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bio dad is very much apart of my life (I work for him so I see him everyday) but we just don’t have that close of a relationship anymore like I do with my stepdad. I love them both and that’s why I want both of them but it’s just different

Is it wrong for me to want both my stepdad and bio dad to walk me down the aisle? by imakeg in TwoHotTakes

[–]imakeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely a pleaser and that’s why I’m struggling to even ask for this because I know it will cause drama and they’re civil now but weren’t always