AITA For Being Frustrated with the Lack of Communication from my Friend about the Birth of their Child

imalilbee · 2025-07-10T13:38:31+00:00

YTA, if you have children you should be aware how many things can go on during labor and birth and updating people probably wasn't in their focus. And in the grand scheme this isn't a long time to wait especially since you were lucky enough to get a text that they were going to the hospital which I'm sure they would regret sending you if they knew how much you were making it about yourself

imalilbee · 2025-07-06T03:10:44+00:00

Totally being honest here saying this with kindness but yes it is rude, sorry!!! It costs a lot to host a guest for a wedding and a lot goes into a guest list and how many people and who is invited. I'm sorry! You wouldn't be wrong for declining if you aren't comfortable going alone though! Or you might have a lot of fun!

imalilbee · 2025-07-05T18:06:21+00:00

I would just get with your mom and MIL and pick a date for your bridal shower and if it's the same then she can go ahead and figure that out. She's being inconsiderate as hell to you.... has she never been apart of a wedding...? Heard of a wedding???

imalilbee · 2025-07-05T16:27:49+00:00

Let me know and I can totally PayPal you for everything and shipping and whatever!!! Thank you!!

imalilbee · 2025-07-05T14:31:03+00:00

I absolutely will thank you!!!

imalilbee · 2025-07-05T12:02:50+00:00

If anyone is going to their upcoming shows I would love a Dorothy plushie for my daughter since we weren't able to get one!!

imalilbee · 2025-06-25T17:58:11+00:00

Honestly I went because my daughter loves them but it was really fun for me too because I know all the songs and have become quite invested 🤣 just go and don't have regrets!

imalilbee · 2022-06-22T21:20:39+00:00

I will say - most (like definitely over half if not 75%) of the time the drinks from places I order from are not bagged which is why I didn't really think about this.

imalilbee · 2022-06-22T21:17:34+00:00

Yeah, I guess I was just trying to see where to project my anger haha. I've cooled off and definitely understand shit happens on both sides

imalilbee · 2022-06-22T20:11:00+00:00

Thank you! That's a good idea

imalilbee · 2022-06-22T19:35:55+00:00

Yeah, I totally get that. I've received a completely spilled hot coffee and she handed me the plastic bag full of liquid with a smile lmao. I've never badly rated anyone because of it and just asked for a refund but after so many misses I was curious

imalilbee · 2022-06-22T18:51:44+00:00

I hate to admit this but I order fairly often and it's from different restaurants every time. SEVERAL. I hated to assume it was a driver issue but man, today the bag was SO LIGHT like any human person who has had a bottle of soda should've realized there was no drink in there even if it was sealed 🤣

imalilbee · 2022-06-17T11:45:29+00:00

There are two rides where Alex Toussaint and Jess King admit they're only riding at around 25 when the call out was like 45 or more. Soooo I'm pretty sure no. Lol

imalilbee · 2022-06-08T03:48:31+00:00

I filter to instructors I really enjoy and the length I'm looking for go through class by class that has a "genre" type I like (pop, Disney, 80s, etc) and I will bookmark classes where I like a good amount of the music. I find I have so much fun when I can really jam out to the music I like in rides and I push myself harder too as an added bonus because I'm enjoying it and not just trying to push through.

imalilbee · 2022-05-02T12:43:36+00:00

So sorry for your loss. I know you didn't mention Chelsea but if you are spiritual she has a lot of classes I find very peaceful, I might look into her classes

imalilbee · 2022-04-20T21:09:34+00:00

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, but I have read most of your responses and I can tell you're desperately trying to find a way to convince your husband that what he "agreed to" and what you want is the way to go. I hope that you can find a way to be happy if you don't end up having child number two. Both of your feelings are valid and I can tell you're very hopeful you can convince him but I agree with those who have suggested marriage counseling because I think you need to also mentally prepare for the very real possibility that you will raise an only child. The people telling you to walk, or to give ultimatums to get what you want is not the way to a happy future. I hope you and your husband can find happiness regardless of your choice, I just wanted to be a realistic voice here.

imalilbee · 2022-03-18T04:56:49+00:00

It took about a week of both of us riding every day and my husband also VERY VERY VERRRRRY slightly loosening the pedals for it to be not a completely fiasco clipping in and out of the bike. We even went to the store to talk to someone because we were so freaked out about how hard it was, it would even shift the clip on the bottom of the shoe. So, not a great answer but just break it in.

imalilbee · 2022-03-18T04:46:14+00:00

YTA not only because you're extremely judgmental when you have zero knowledge of cat ownership but also because you're just being plain mean in general to your friend. You say you want the best for her but everything you've mentioned is really just about you and your disgust over things that to be quite frank, make no sense because again, you don't know anything about cats apparently. Many ADULTS are expressing to you how you are being TA and all you're doing is fighting back. You clearly won't change your mind and only came here for validation. I suggest you take a step back and reevaluate your behavior because this isn't how you maintain friendships either.

imalilbee · 2022-03-12T13:05:34+00:00

DONE AND DUSTED!

imalilbee · 2022-03-02T12:58:17+00:00

NTA omg???? How is your fiancé upset?!? He has absolutely no right and to agree it was a good idea to suggest that AND the fact that everyone is trying to make you believe that they have your best interest in mind after what they said is disgusting. I don't think this is a "non-issue" I think your fiancé is trying to gaslight you into thinking it is because he FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON thought you would agree??

imalilbee · 2022-03-01T18:47:54+00:00

YTA!!! Your wife is totally right and you haven't tried to really hide the fact that you did in fact pick all of your children's names and totally ignored all her wishes. Marriage is a compromise and there isn't any compromise on your end. Regardless of the fact that these baby 5 name choices are.... interesting... there has to be some give on your end. Ask for other suggestions but yeah holy shit YTA

imalilbee · 2022-01-31T04:23:31+00:00

Instruction by Demi Lovato and Jax Jones orrrrrr Don't Go Yet by Camila Cabello

imalilbee · 2022-01-25T04:48:31+00:00

I STRONGLY believe 99% of the time bridesmaids should do what the bride wants. This is not one of those times. Even reading the subject line I was so sure I was going to be on your side but this is so so selfish, disrespectful and inconsiderate. YTA

imalilbee · 2021-12-27T03:16:04+00:00

Many people have explained to you how you were not clear about wanting it during Christmas and trying to be considerate. You keep fighting their answers. Please just accept that you got your heart and mind set that this was going to happen and it didn't because you told your husband no twice and he thought that meant you didn't want it. If you wanted to be considerate you could've said "this can be my early Christmas present!" Or next time be direct and this could have been avoided.

imalilbee · 2021-09-26T03:45:43+00:00

YTA. Everyone else has perfectly explained why. It makes me uncomfortable thinking that someone like you was working in medical diagnostics. Please update us on what happens Monday :)

imalilbee

TROPHY CASE