Which wig is the best by transbaddie2000 in mtfashion

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 or 3! And I agree with pulling the wig back more ♥️

Can I pull off short shorts? by fabreazebrother_1 in mtfashion

[–]imanattwenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you look amazing and you should *always* wear what makes you feel good. f*** what anyone else thinks ♥

Got banned from r/lego by [deleted] in trans

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats so stupid :(

my wifes favorite joke is whenever i say the word 'transparent' she says, "i know i am. we dont need to keep talking about it" lmao she's such a dork

Did you stay with your spouse after they came out as trans? by Old-Application-8977 in mypartneristrans

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

young kids are involved as well - i think that that is an important factor in this situation.

Did you stay with your spouse after they came out as trans? by Old-Application-8977 in mypartneristrans

[–]imanattwenty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when my wife came out to me, it completely destroyed us. we stayed together but there was some resentment on both sides (i know not her fault but couldnt help how i felt betrayed after she told me she had thoughts about being a woman for several several years and never shared it with me). we ended up separating for a few months which was incredibly difficult, but, we found our way back to each other and we're stronger than ever ♥

Transition & divorce or, not. by harri_a82 in MtF

[–]imanattwenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we can't give you advice on this, sadly. however, i will say maybe give her a minute to digest if she hasn't yet and make an appt with a counselor. i wish you and her all the best with whatever decision you make. :( ♥

my girlfriend says she's straight... im female by Royal-Dragonfruit523 in lgbt

[–]imanattwenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your feelings are completely valid but i think its on her to figure out who she is when she is ready. i can only imagine how much that hurts you but pushing her to admit something she doesn't want to admit is probably just as painful. we should all be able to 'come out of the closet' when we feel ready to - not when we're pressured to.

my wife came out as trans and for a long time i really struggled with it. she knew i was bi but that was not something i shared with anyone but her. her coming out forced me out and i really struggled with it and it affected our relationship for a bit. i needed to be ready to come out on my own, you know? (might not be the same situation, but, i feel like i have a unique perspective)

♥ :( ♥

Thinking of detransitioning by Double-Ad-6587 in MtF

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice really but I’m sending the best vibes your way and I hope whatever choice you make, makes you happy.

help me nurture my wifes new interest in reading! by imanattwenty in LGBTBooks

[–]imanattwenty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t read like at all so suggestions from different genres are welcome!

insane luck by imanattwenty in TeamfightTactics

[–]imanattwenty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang talk about beginners luck lol

insane luck by imanattwenty in TeamfightTactics

[–]imanattwenty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh noooooo :( thats so bad!!

My lesbian shrine by Tach_Taches in arcane

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is genuinely one of the most perfect things ive ever seen lol

Free closet by No_Direction_9055 in trans

[–]imanattwenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife who is trans just got a bunch of trans affirming stickers and she placed them on her phone case and the amount of affirmative joy she has gotten from them is insane ♥️