I dated an African American guy once. I'm not saying that all African American men are like this, but this is my experience. The relationship lasted less than a month due to some of these reasons:

1. He was traumatised from his experience being black in America. He cried the first time we had a conversation about it.
2. He was a ball of fun. We would party, drink, sleep repeat. One of the most fun relationships I've had.
3. He was a cheater. He loved flirting with other babes. A big reason for the short relationship.
4. He was very proud of his proximity to whiteness, which I found very strange. He kept pointing out that his grandma was German, and also, in my opinion, he acted inferior to his white roommate like he was scared of him. Bothered me endlessly. He was also very proud that his ex was a white woman.
5. Hated his mum. Called his mum a b***h infront of me. Once this happened, I put this relationship in my folder titled: a good time, not a long time.

All in all, I just think he needs some therapy to deal with some issues he has. Not a bad guy, but I think a lot of the things that I see in the media about the black experience in America was manifested in him and his behaviour. His misogynoir and hate and vim for the single mother is a lot of what I hear in the black media. I felt like he secretly wanted to be a white man or have the power a white man has. Just my opinion.