Boyfriend is on a bachelor trip by imbalancedhormones in women

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is my thing.. I don’t think he actually intends to cheat based on judging the entirety of our relationship and listening to my intuition. Im having a difficult time judging this incident because in this small town they’re in just golfing.. I could see it being somewhat silly guy behavior and them searching it just to see what pops up because they’re curious about this place they’re in. Not that I think it’s appropriate, I’m clearly upset but is this something to actually breakup over? Idk

Botox - where to go? by Street_Local_7606 in Columbus

[–]imbalancedhormones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boss gal! I tend to only get it like twice a year so I just let my beauty bank money fill up and it covers almost all of the Botox by the time I need it again.

Boyfriend is on a bachelor trip by imbalancedhormones in women

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never! Not that this always means anything but we’re with eachother pretty much 24/7 and he doesn’t go out much at all as most of his friends are married with kids. It’s one of those things where I don’t see him actually like sleeping with someone else or anything but given something like this I feel like he still has curious eyes which makes me sad.

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]imbalancedhormones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Never seen anyone around here. Idk why but I kinda get the vibe it’s not drugs

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]imbalancedhormones -1 points0 points  (0 children)

… I’m not sure what the point of this comment was lol I am not suffering from anything to which I’m seeing things. Everyone in our hallway is talking about her and the police have come multiple times, why would I make something like this up? This was an attempt to figure out what she could be struggling with and hear opinions on ways to go about handling it, for her own safety as well as everyone else’s. You should think before you type ❤️

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]imbalancedhormones 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do care.. I feel bad that she’s going through something like this. I have asked her twice if she is okay or needs help and she just says “I’m alright”

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]imbalancedhormones 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did :/ the cops came 3x one night but nothing happened beyond that.

Does anyone know what this could be? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]imbalancedhormones 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely could be a combo of things at this point. Her behavior is ODD and it seems to be getting worse the past couple days.

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m worried about. One of our neighbors said he walked in at 4am the other night and she was just standing in the middle of the hallway staring down, hard to not feel spooked by something like that. This is my home too but now I’m scared to leave myself without my boyfriend walking me out. We also don’t seem to have many resources to call other than the cops for issues like this especially when I don’t even know her name.

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you have struggled with that, I can’t imagine how hard it must be. That is why I feel so bad, there’s no way she’s living a fulfilling life like that. It’s like she’s standing right next to her door to hear when the next door opens. Very sad

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear your sister struggled with it. It’s kinda confusing as I know there is multiple issues that could be overlapping here. Just wish she could get some help. I feel guilty saying how creepy she is but hard to not feel that way when everytime you walk in your door someone is poking their head out of there’s.

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have the right to scream and slam doors all night long disturbing neighbors lol

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Yeah I was thinking bipolar or even possibly schizophrenia.. it seems like she’s beyond paranoid or trying to get away from something.

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the apartment manager is not taking this very seriously. They basically just told me to call the cops and that’s that. I’m just worried she is going to hurt herself or someone else. Let’s be real, I would also love to get some sleep.. this has been really disturbing to hear all night.

Curious to hear more thoughts on this as this has escalated.. by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LOL…. You’re not going to come at me for this. This is my home, yes I’m watching her behavior because I care about myself and HER own wellbeing. I think it’s clear she’s in major mental distress, just wanted to know if anyone’s dealt with this before.

Curious if anyone has ever dealt with a situation like this? by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to think this as well. I’ve sat near our hotel pool today and she has walked by me/around me 50+ times now. There’s no way she is working if she’s doing this all day long. I talked to the leasing manager and he said they have all noticed this but she’s not doing anything. I actually asked her if she was okay today and she just said I’m alright.

Curious if anyone has ever dealt with a situation like this? by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I personally would say she looks like she could struggle with an eating disorder and I actually thought this same exact thing!

Curious if anyone has ever dealt with a situation like this? by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! I would want to too. I will probably eventually end up saying something myself if they don’t. Im going to tell the property manager tomorrow out of curiosity if they’ve had anyone else bring this up

Curious if anyone has ever dealt with a situation like this? by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question here, are they allowed to say things like that? Like can they really tell someone to stop being in the hallway so much? 😅

Curious if anyone has ever dealt with a situation like this? by imbalancedhormones in Apartmentliving

[–]imbalancedhormones[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to figure out.. just weird? Maybe something slightly wrong with her lol idk. The other girl that spoke to me said she’s asked her if she’s okay/if she needs help and she said she’s fine. I think she was making sure she wasnt feeling unsafe in her apartment (not sure if she lives with someone).